Hey Guys!

I've recently just got into a new relationship 3 weeks ago with a girl, whom I dated for a few weeks before that. I'm 21 in june and she's 19 in june, I tend to go for the more mature girl around my age but heh. Anyway, it's different from other relationships I've had and that's because she's not sexual. Now I'm not sure if it's maybe either because she's not comfortable, or she's a virgin and doesn't want to rush things.

I've kinda broken my own rule of going out with a girl before u've fucked her. I'm quite comfortable sexually and I've got a experience behind me now but basically I've went from having regularly sex with a fuck-buddy to a relationship with a girl who won't touch me - I'm just a little frustrated aha!

I haven't really brought up the virgin conversation as of yet, not that it's an issue with me as it's not I don't mind at all, It hasn't been the right situation and I'm actually not quite sure how to ask without being rude or evading her.

She's made a few kinky little comments over text on separate occasions, one example those was at night time when i said something like 'come to my bed and snuggle in' when she said she'd love to but we wouldn't get much sleep. Hmmmmm!

Last weekend, I was at hers, she was in her PJ's and we were lying together on the bed watching TV. As I was rubbing her leg, I wanted to test the waters so I teased her a little by rubbing quite close and then pulling anyway, slowly and gradually progressing to make sure she'd be up for it. I got to the point where I knew she was literally soaking wet after rubbing her through her bottoms for so long, I looked at her and went down her bottoms this time, she seemed comfortable, as I was vary of her reactions, and I was surprised to find that she wasn't wearing any panties. So i continued to gradually progress from the inside to rubbing her gspot, she seemed comfortable but didn't really react in a way that she was enjoying it if you know what I mean, I noticed her breathing starting to get deeper and then she said she needed the pee before she bursts, so of course I stop and that was that but she didn't exactly rush to the loo as if she was bursting. This to me suggests that she got the sensation of needing to pee because she was about to cum / orgasm but she probably wasn't aware of that.

Now, what do you think? any tipis on progressing things forward?

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Why is that complicated? Tell her exactly that - you were about to "orgasm" not pee. Keep going the way you're going, treat her well, make sure she's always comfortable, let her stop when she wants, but keep reminding her - she might feel like peeing but she will orgasm if she just goes with it.

And keep reminding her she will learn to enjoy it a lot more, the more she does it, and the more she relaxes. Keep reminding her to relax and behave in a way that will help her relax.