Me and my girlfriend have sex on a basis of somewhere around once or twice a MONTH. I am 22 years old and live at home (attending school full time and graduating this year) and she is 19 and lives at home (attending school - also graduating this year).

The problem is this:

She doesn't feel comfortable doing it at her house when her parents are home.
She doesn't feel comfortable doing it at MY house when MY parents are home.
ANd she REFUSES to do anything sexual in a car. She says it makes her feel dirty.

I haven't been getting the sex I need out of the relationship and it is starting to wear in on me.

I took her out valentines day and did a lot of amazing things for and with her - but at the end of the day since we couldn't have an empty house - she still refused to do anything in the car. I didn't do the day with the mindset of getting laid... but it would have been a nice ending to our night.

How can I break her mindset a bit? Is it possible to broaden her horizons??

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Man this sounds like my first girlfriend. She was NEVER horny and always felt guilty about doing it for whatever reasons. She just didn't have the sexual appetite to match mine.

I think it would be a waste of time to try and change her. The GOOD news is that there are shitloads of girls out there that want to do it wherever, whenever. So go find one.

Same happened with my girlfriend. Wanted nothing in the car.

We kept on making out making out and making out in the backseat until she felt comfortable enough to let me touch her. Mind you, we went through alot of makeout sessions without sex in the car, ending up in alot of freeze outs by me.
I just kept on escalating, slowly. Touching ended up with me fingering her, then she was loving life, just about to finish when i say 'okay, i think we should go home now'. She grabbed me whilst i was pulling up and asked me if i wanted to do it.
done.
Do this when your in the early stages of escalation too. Freeze her out if she is refusing to escalate right when she i enjoying herself.
Girls like that need to know that sex is an important part of a relationship.

Now i have defiled my family car countless times now. lol


ps. Never make the sex about you. Make it all about her. Never finish first. We tend to think about ourselves too much when were lacking in sex. Girls hold the emotional side of sex higher than we do. Feed into that emotional side and she will want to be on you constantly

I'm going to go in the same direction as michael1918 last bit.

Make sex GREAT for her. Not just ok. Make sure she cums and cums hard every single time. Make her realise that sex is not 'dirty', that it is the single most thrilling thing you two can do together.

Oh and talk to her. Communication is key in a relation. Talk to her about your lack of sex and how it makes you feel. Try to find alternatives together.

Good luck

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everyone have sexual needs .. understandable, she doesn't give you the things you want. you do something and you expect to have sex at the end ? is that real love ? you can also see it like this , can you break your own mindset ?

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