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okay ill cut short with you guys here. im 15, I know i havent posted here in aaages. I have been picking up chicks for a good year or so, and i can get girls numbers rather easily from cold approaches n kiss closes arent a problem.
Ryt this might sound like one-itis (it probs is but hey i dnt care she has it for me) basically i mean ive gone down on her and she me (she swallows =]) but the point is i mean we wer really cloes for 2/3 months, but the past month i keep gettin paranoid about her with other guys. i dont show it and i act aloof to it. She is just diff with me n other guys. I dont mind it, but she seems slightly diff towards me aswel. She says she loves me, and i do her, but i just dont get her =S
Also ive not been gettin on with her mates SPAM cuz of like nothing, its weird. but she will say to ma face how they are being dicks and stuff then in front of them is just uberly normal and happy. i dnt feel like shes spending as much time with me as she used to either.
Next time i stay over at hers im pretty 100% sure we will do it: i evenm got maself sum johnnies.
My question i pose is three- fold.
1. It hurts her when i use more than one finger... so sex is obv gunna hurt the first time. I cant get hold of any lube, so how can i make it as pain free as possible?
2. How can i get her to want to spend more time with me and i mean i might just go for the OMS on her but yeah... dunno. ny other tips are great.
3. I need to make her orgasm! shes never bin able to, but appaz i get her real close but no matter how long i go for she never cums. i tease her to fuck when goin down on her (licking n biting thighs etc.) and i bite her neck which makes her wet as fuck. i kiss every little body part, head to toe, i run my hand up the inside of her thighs and grze ma hand over her underwear until i can feel the moisture through them then i take em off and i tease her until she cnt take it then i like finger her/ go down on her (g-spot n clit) and i mean i dnt change technique when shes gettin ther or owt, but she finds it IMPOSSIBLE. i dunno wat else i can do :-s any help g8ly appreciated.
Btw just cuz i love this girl it doesn't mean im gunna be pulling out of the game- too much fun xDD
Ily xxx
Merch
Firstly, if you LOVE her, be with her and only with her! If you DON'T LOVE her, don't lead her on and let her find someone who loves her and she can love him back!
She is Vrigin, and that adds to the issue I just talked about! Its way easier for girls to fall for the first person they have sex with! As they are the "reciever", who have to agree with submission and that makes them more vounrable and alot of trust needs to be given and promises which can be full-filled! Thats the humen way. Agree or not thats how it is and I've bashed or stopped talking to many guys I know who have lied to a girl and took her virginity and fucked off! If Game is everything for you, don't tell girls you love them! My girlfriend DOES know about game, and I told her many many times before I had sex with her for the first time that "DO not count on me forever! This may finish in a week, a month, 2 month or whenever. But it will finish one day and as long as I know you will not say "you used me" I agree to go through with this!" and the second she was ready for sex I still asked her to wait -as it could have been the heat of the moment- untill she was certain she wants me to take her virginity!
No lies, no games only good morals!
so Firstly you need to talk to her about the same thing I just talked to you about and make sure she understands that you won't stick around forever for her! Let her first be a success for her, not a failur!
Question one:
Use lots of lube, if one finger hurts, you cannot have sex as she might whine and ask you to stop! You need to be patient! build the sexual tension up, rub her gently and keep talking to her! Go down on her, and use a finger, and go in circlar way and KEEP communicating and talking! put lube on her and ley beside her and make out while your finger is still playing with her pussy! with other hand grab the back of her neck and kiss her hard -thats when the sexual tension escalates and breath hard and everything that u should already know and at this point gradually enter 2 fingers and go in circular motions and up and down! this will hurt her, but it wont be as painful as entering your penis in there!
Question two:
Again, relates to what I was talking about before! If you want a girl to want to see you more you need to give them assurance and security and confidance that you are not fucking around with her! Specially for a teen virgin girl. If you can provide that good, if not, just go with a bit older age who are not virgins!
Question three:
She might have been comfortable giving you head or you going down on her, but she still might not be 100 percent comfortable! She might be thinking about how she looks, if she is clean, what you think of her and so many other shit which you need to get out of her mind!
Girls get orgams better by fingering and licking! make her lose for at least 2 fingers and rub her G-spot! Some like it hard, some like it soft, just gradually increase the strength and see how she moans and adjust your speed and presssure with her moan! if she tells you "it hurts" pressure less and while you are doing this, lick her clit. You can even ask her to join in and help you open her vagina so u can have a better access to the clit!
SOme girls Love their nipples to be pinched and bitten, the most important thing is communication! Ask her what feels the best, get her to masterbate infront of you and see which area's she rubs the most!
and alot of patience! Average time for girls to orgams is 20 mins if I heard correctly!
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