| Becoming less jealous correlates directly with your self confidence. I have a girlfriend, and she is fun, wild, really attractive....but I never sweat the idea of her doing anything. Never. This could be for a few reasons....
1) Think about if she left you. Think about if you no longer had her and even worse case scenario that she cheated on you. What would you do? Me personally....I would go about my business and start fucking a lot of other women and do whatever the fuck I want. I would forget about her and all she is worth and move onto the next girl. Would it hurt my ego? No, nothing can...it's too big haha. But seriously, girls can be crazy, so the fact that she fucked up and couldn't control herself should have no bearing on my ego.
2) Stop trying to track her down. Stop trying to time how long it takes her to go to the store. Don't try and peak at her phone when she leaves it on the table. Stop asking her questions to try to catch her in a lie. Not that you do all of these thigns...but this is the type of shit that will fuck you up in your own head. This is why you were going "crazy on the inside." Imagine if instead of calling everyone, you just called up your friend and did something completely off the topic of your girlfriend... My girlfriend can leave her phone with me while she goes out all night and no matter how many times it goes off, I will never look at it. I flat out don't give a shit. I didn't used to be like this...it takes training and self discipline. Do you know how often I look at her facebook page? probably once in the past 4 months, because she wanted to show me something on it. So reason 2, in a nutshell....stop looking for shit!
3) So how do you do this? How do you train yourself to no longer be jealous? It all comes down to knowing you have options. When you're not with her, mack it to other chicks. I'm not saying cheat on her, but let yourself know you have options. When she is out, you go out and get your mind off what she is doing. You should be your own man, too busy to worry about where you're girlfriend is.
Honestly, the less you worry about her, the more attracted to you she will become. I tell my girlfriend that she should go out and cheat on me once in a while, just to remind her that no one can fuck her as hard or as good as me. Now she knows better than to do so, but that is the confidence that I project.
It sounds like she is stressing you out more than making your life better. If that's the case then I'd say just end it and find some new girls to fuck around with. I also have a feeling you might be a bit younger than me, high school maybe....which is cool. This is just some of those learning curves you need to experience to become a better man. So try and control that jealousy...it is a completely wasted emotion for us guys. Jealousy is a tool you should use against the women. Get them jealous and they will chase you until no end! Well good luck man! _________________ The Bachelor's Code by Tyler. Check it out...
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