So for those of you who dont know, Iv been dating this girl for a few months. We broke up but kept seeing each other cuz we kinda went into it too fast (I picked her up off the street and a week later shes at my house making out with me on my bed)

*we still havnt had sex, for various reasons but goddamn i want her bad.

In any case, things have been rather iffy lately. Shes always been moody but last week we spent every day fighting. its ridiculous. She started treating me like crap more and more the further we get into the relationship. Sometimes shes the cutest thing, and sometimes shes really dry...

ANYWAYS. I went over saturday night and we got into a big argument and we ended up discussing everything. She said that the reason we arnt getting back together yet is because she loves me sometimes and sometimes she doesnt. In the sense that somedays she thinks about me and all that and other days she just doesnt.

Which basically means Im just not a challenge to her anymore. She has me when she wants..

how can I re-flip her attraction switches (I sometimes successfully do and shes a cutie all over again) and be more of a challenge to her?

Mack

1) Date other women
2) Dont contact her
3) Don't take her back when she comes running back

She either chase you for a while and fall hard for you or give up on u.

Bro im still dating her! Shes just not my girlfriend because shes still iffy. Shes a VERY independant girl and so sometimes shes totally in love. Shel txt non stop, and call a few times a day. And some days she wont want to talk, or just be totally moody and its annoying!

Speak of the devil, she just txted "heyyy! " (I told her that if I dont get a txt from her this morning, Im not giving her attention all day. Its a little power struggle game we play)

this is how my ex was and we are trying to work things out too



for me, I just feel like its time to let go of trying to figure out who has power and who is in control and who is a challenge and shit.

Do you like this girl and can you deal with her mood swings?

I mean my ex used to text me call me three times a day just like this every day and that can get boring for both of us and we also fought so much it was ridiculous, we always fight, but its just hard to fight all the time and its not worth it especially if the girl is busy and independant like you said.

All i'm suggesting is that if your girl is unsure and its because your always there then remove yourself and she should come full force back at you. I don't know i've also done this and it pissed my girlfriend off because she was like why do you keep dumping me all the time I can't trust you and it really made it hard to repair our relationship.

if she acts good sometimes you could try rewarding and punishing her but sometimes girls just have personalities like that and you either gotta put up with it or not instead of figuring out how to change it.

2cents

That doesn't sound like she is your girlfriend.

When girls are like this it generally means they are bored. Whatever spark was there to begin with has dwindled, it's a pretty common thing. Many guys are able to land a girl acting like a PUA, but then turn around when they get in a relationship and go back to old habits that got them single in the first place.

Start acting like the man she met. Don't over-exaggerate the small things. If she starts to get argumentative, change the subject and get back into a positive frame. That being said, don't let her push you around, but definitely don't be the one to get angry and super argumentative back. Girls hate it when you refuse to argue, and she's bound to start noticing if she's the one starting all the arguments or not.

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