Most men put women on a pedestal, they give them a lot of credit for their looks and would commit to a date, a relationship, or maybe even more, purely based on this. Most women are not right for you! Likewise, most relationships don't work! Adoption these as new beliefs will enable you to approach more comfidently and be more circumspect. Credit-gambler

i would put my wife on a pedastal as well... it's not wrong to put woman on a pedestal if you are on a pedestal yourself. i once told a woman she looks nice and we ended up into a date, normally i don't compliment people on appearance because i believe personality is more important to me. i also tell them this. you are being a total joke here .... you probably got good intentions but you are delusional. first of all.. all woman are right for me.. i decide what is good or wrong for myself and second i respect everyone. i don't judge people.... and of course don't people know whats good for you ! do you think they can read minds.. no they can't SO why should a woman know whats good for you ? sometimes you don't even know what's good for you. if it doesn't work you make it work - and if it still doesn't work you are uncapable of making it work - your own fault. if you can't handle a bitch you need to learn on how to handle a bitch and to be honest my last GF was a bitch and i liked that - i like arrogant girls.
yeah lets blindly believe an new religion ... let's al be muslim because allah is better and if we believe in him we can approach more girls. i decide my own beliefs and my own reality and you can all fuck-off with you negative spiral-like thoughts - and that is what makes me approach more woman with confidence.
the mindset you are presenting here is a fucked up mindset if you are in a relationship - maybe it helps you approach with more confidence but you will fuckup at other aspects. paradox.

i think gambler is victim of his own succes as all this pua nonsense is commercialized these days. i approached girls naturally and said '' hey wassup im lodewijk'' and number closed them + dated them. let all those puas use artificial lines which doesn't represent themselfs ....you don't need to use line this or line this YOU ACT to what you personally believe in.
if you think gambler is the expert or god .. go ahead... go share his fucked up perspective of relationships.

Blind Adoption of beliefs is the dumbest thing you can do, especially if you do it because some mumbo jumbo expert created them. i laugh at those guys who consider themselfs pua.... who that guy ? is he PUA or is he tim ?
also your post is not for this relationship section.... as for now ... get out of here and stop assuming mindsets you haven't mastered.
i have a better one.....
sometimes it's good to put a woman on a pedestal and sometimes it's not... just do what you feel like you should do and act without selfishness.

this is not an insult : you have limited beliefs

as for the title of this thread : stop idealising woman, also stop idealising men please. AND ABOVE ALL STOP IDEALISING PUA

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I agree with you totally 100%

dude don't agree with anything.. that's my pioint, be flexible.
of course you like her because the way she looks jezus gawd .... those guys are just be honest but their inner game sucks.... that's why they get bashed.
some guys just put woman on a pedastal and get laid instantly....

if you are a total noob then i will agree you shouldn't put woman on a pedastal - but if you are in a relationship you shouldn't neg or game your girl at all. If you firmly believing woman aren't right won't get in a healthy relationship at all.

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This will help some people but your welcome to believe what you want

Lodewijkp, It was a quote out of Gamblers book "The Natural art of Seduction".
Maybe you should pick up a copy it might help your inner game. You seem to fluster easy

this won't help your inner game at all, i read this stuff.....
maybe you should watch RSD blueprint decoded....

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I JUST joined this forum, and Lode, I wanted to compliment you.

Your advice is always satisfying and interesting. Very good.

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You have a short fuse bro.

As for Gerlach,
That is one of my favorite and life changing quotes that started my down this road.

compliment accepted

ím not having a short fuse...im seeing some blind spots i want to show you, but im over-enthousiastic. Don't adopt a mindset.... just work from your inner game from your core.. the rest of these mindsets and beliefs should be put in your toolbox. Only use it when you really need it... there is no perfect way or foolproof mindset - just be the one that is flexible.

don't be like americans when they first entered vietnam... they weren't flexible and everything turned into a mess. Not being flexible can beat the biggest contenders and make the highest trees fall. if the wind is bouncing against the highest tree it must be flex so it can slex along, being rigid can only make the tree fall at this point.

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