I’m going to try to keep this as short as possible.

I’ve been seeing this girl for about a month now, everything was well. She’s the one who always initiates the texts, msn chats and says “miss you” to which I’d reply “I miss you a little (in a cheeky manner)” (don’t want her to get too confident).

Anyway my problem is this, she tells me she likes and loves me a lot but two days before she met me she went on a date with a guy who she doesn’t like (she told me a few days after our date). This didn’t bother me because we weren’t together so I didn’t think much about it. On our second date she told me she wanted to tell this guy she’s not interested and wanted to be with me. I told her she needed to speak to this guy and tell him you've no interest in him. A day or two later she comes on msn and told me she’s done it and now we could be an “official couple.” I replied I wanted to take things slow.

I knew there was something wrong with her today, usually when I’m at work she always texts me to ask how I am and tell me how much she misses me. Today she didn’t, so on my lunch I signed on msn and she pops on saying “sorry I never texted you today, I was tired and I didn’t sleep well.” I asked her why and she replied “My ex boyfriend texted late last night asking how I was and told me he still had feelings for me”. She said it bothers her because she’s not sure what his intentions were and wanted to find out. I told her if she didn’t get the response she’s expecting or wanted to hear I’d not be there by her side.

I also told her she needed to do what she thought was right, but if she made the wrong decision I’d not be there to support nor wait for her. I left her to go back to work and said “Whatever you do, I want you to be honest with me, I’ll not get angry but I might be disappointed with your decision”. She replied “I love you” but I ignored it and signed out. So now I’m freezing her out. Whilst at work she texted saying:-

“Thinking of you loads! Had a few hours to reflect on what I want and I what I want to do. I’ve realised that I don’t want anything or anyone apart from you! I guess I was surprised my ex texted me, it’s really out of the blue so I texted back saying thanks for caring and I’m with someone now who I truly care about and want to be with. I’m glad he never text me back”.

The fact she needed time to think what she wanted has made me think she might still have feelings for her ex. If she liked me she wouldn’t need to time to think. I’ve not replied to her text, I just finished work and after typing this I’m going to the gym. I’m going to keep myself busy and not think about her. I’d be grateful if you can give me advice in what do next, when should I respond to her text? What should I say? What should I do after freezing her? I don’t want to be a chump and pretending everything is fine because it annoyed me and I want her to know it did.

Any advice is welcome and appreciated.

Thanks

Well, if you want to her to know that you were annoyed, tell her.

I wouldn't even waste my time with this chick she sounds like a freak. Next time a girl pulls something like that next her ass for 3 days (cut all contact) then reinitiate it with her. That'll send a clear message to her you not putting up with her bullshit.

Honestly I have a similar problem

just ignore it. act as if nothing happens. Dont let it affect you.
If you show that it does, you seem less alpha, less confidant. If you keep your composure, just laugh it off... I mean think about it, can he really compare to YOU! Your a PUA man! Your the sh*t and no guy even comes to your ankle!

all you need to do is remember that shes yours and no one elses, and you got her with YOUR skill and charm. if you had her once, you can get her again.

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