So, Ive made a couple of threads about my girlfriend and ex.
We broke up day before new years eve but we stayed friends kinda, we slept with each other on new years. and when she left for uni we still told each other we love one another and hope one day we can get back together.

I havent seen her since, but we kept in contact. She invited me down to celebrate for something and said it would be really really nice to see me, and that she loves me and misses me.
I didnt go, told her its not a great idea but I said I still love her.

Later she was telling me how she is crying cause im not on my side of the bed and so and so. I didnt really say anything back.

I know something has happened between her and some douche that was all over her like a puppy. They were always taking pictures together and so on. And I see on his facebook, that she isnt inviting him anymore, that he's lonely and bored and basically being a total pussy.

I read one morning, he said, together enough to make breakfast in the morning.. what is going on.
I think she has given him the boot. If she has gotten with him, I would never talk to her again even though we said we'll be good friends and have spoken to each other a few times on the phone, facebook and text. Because she said she is breaking up with me because of uni and work. Which would mean she is lying to me.


Couple of weeks ago, a good buddy of mine took her to a concert (he is totally innocent) and while they were talking she said shd is starting to get over me and said our saga isnt finised and hopes we can be together cause Im perfect (lol) Then at the end she said, I want to ask him to get back with me.

Anyway, last week I text her after seeing on her facebook she is panicing and had a panic attack. After talking for a bit, I text her saying I miss you, how about I come over next week to see you and the flat mates. She didnt reply. That was the only other time I said anything affectionate during the break up.
I didnt text her after that or reply to her facebook message.

The other day her message was, got a day off for the first time on valentines day and Im single..typical.
And someone mentions to get out there and she replied saying, she has tried but no1 would have her as a joke.

I want to go over on tuesday to get my stuff and drop a video game for my friend there too her flat mate.

1st. I do want her back. How can I get her back first of all? How should I be like?
I know girls are going to be texting me when I go see her. But how should I act?

She might invite me to stay the night in bed with her, just as a sleep though even if she hasnt asked me out again.

2nd. Another thing is, I want the truth from her if she, if she had gotten with this other guy and if she said she didnt want to be with me because of uni and work why is she trying it with other guys?

If she did ask me out or brought it up, I will make her sweat for it. Because I would want to know why she thinks it would work this time and why did she break up with me in the first place.

I was gonna text her 2moro for the first time and say. "hiya, how u doing? Can I come down 2moro to pick my stuff up? x
Its quite a cold message, normally we are very friendly and loving and kinda says i dont care. Is that the right way?

Im also close with her parents and have gone to see them a few times since we broke up.


Thanks guys

Anyone?

Seems like she met someone, broke up with you, then realized the guy was a chode and wanted you back to me. Do what you feels right, honestly, even if you do get back with her, I bet you'll be thinking about did she or did she not? For months. Get it out of the way before you even get into a relationship with her. If she brings up the relationship, just act like you don't care and say "What xxx didn't work out and now you want me back?" She'll get mad and defensive but she'll probably admit what happened ect.... But if you do get back with her just make sure you get it out of the way.

Thanks man.

I will definetly want to know before I get with her again. But I dont even know how to bring it up about us. How can I make her want me again, what should I do?

You are probably right, but you never know.

Anyway, I did text her today and said I want to pick my stuff up, was pretty cold about it and she called me straight away.
She was very cheerful and how are you and talking like we talked yday or something, very nice tone of voice. And said dont come 2moro because I have an exam and have another deadline by the end of the week (I know she does because her mum was going on about it and so were my other friends who are her flat mates).
She said I have a few days off next week so come then. She didnt really give me a chance to even talk, when I gave a reply, she said right away whats wrong.
She then when on about uni and how her 30 year old sister has come out the closet....

So its a few things.

1. She wants me to come over when she has time off, just to be friends.

2. She wants me to come when she is prepared and make me jealous. Either have another guy friend there or something.

3. Wants to spend time with me to get back.

I just need some tips on how to make her like me again and want me again. and how to bring up the conversation.

You dated the girl, you know what she likes about you. . . everything apparently, your perfect to her. lol

Just bring up some of the happiest times you've had together, where she was loving you. Youll be fine

If you wanna find out the relationship stuff. You need to be serious. Make sure shes comfortable with you already, preferably after youve made her laugh and that. Just tell her you still love her and miss her alot. Then say it was a pity the way you ended it. Then ask her

keep us posted