So, me and my ex of about 6 months broke up in october (3ish months ago), it was on good terms.

We've hung out since and she was a little weird at first, but its good now. When we see each other passing in Uni or out on the town we make a point of talking and catching up.

She never had facebook before and recently got it. She has been adding people like crazy, just about everyone we worked with together this summer, a few of my friends and their girlfriends.

She hasn't sent me a request and I'm just trying to figure out the point she is trying to prove.

Is she hoping I'll add her so "she wins."

Does she not want to see whats going on my profile and not want me to see whats on hers.

It just seems so high schoolish and I thought we were beyond these kinds of petty things.

Confused,

B-Man

Is this a serious question?.... This shouldn't really be of any concern.

But if this really matters THAT MUCH to you then just wait a few more days or weeks until she has finished "mass-adding" all her contacts. Then, if she STILL hasn't added you - then just add her if you really have to. Shouldn't be a problem.

Relax home boy....you need to get out and not obsess over your ex. You want her back then tell her to go out with you, man up and dont sit at home looking back on the past...if she turns you down then move on and find a new lady.

Facebook is the last of your problems and no if you add her it doesnt make you look weak...what makes you look weak is not having a life...join the gym, take up a new hobby, buy your self some new cloths, go out and meet new people (women)....You need to better your self in order to get somone back! there is a reason the two of you broke up and if you go back to her as the exact same person she wont give you the time of day.