I met this girl 3 weeks ago. She has a boyfriend for the last 4/5 years. She's friends with friends of mine.
All of us usually go out at night and our conversations were full of flirt and everything.
2 days ago we had a date. There were lots of kino and lots of flirting, and she was always looking to my lips. I noticed, but I ignored.
Yesterday we lunched at my house and when we got to my bedroom, we played a lot with each other.
After some time, I held her tight, because she was sad. She said she was starting to like me.
She said some things like "I hate liking you. If I hated you it would be easier."
But after that we kissed and spent a good time.
After that we made out and everything, spent a great time and she said "I'm confused. I have to tell to my boyfriend what's going on. Our relationship over the last times got a little boring. I still love him, but less than before. And I adore you. I want to be with you. I'm super attracted to you."
I've only answered something like this "well, either you'll be with me and it's going to be great, or you'll be with him. The thing is, either way we're going to be fine
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Later on she told her boyfriend what happened and then they broke up.
She told me that and said she was very sad, because she still likes him, which I understand.
I did not force anything, I've even told her "let's not rush anything."
She does not want to rush it, she asked for time and space, is affraid of having something with me, because I'm kinda playboy, and she asked me not to run away from her.
The thing is... yeah, I agreed with her, she needs time, but I think this is going to lead nowhere.
What's your input?
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