Here is the situation, 2 weeks ago GF came over and wanted to break up, we broke up and 10 mintues later she came back in tears and we got back together under the condition we would be less serious. The first week back together was great. We hung out three times each time we had so much fun together and the sex was great. On the third day after a nap she broke up with me again (after a fun filled day in which she was happy). She said she wanter her independence because she had been in so many relationships and that she didn't love me anymore. (this is last saturday). we didn't talk for a day and a half but she wrote me a email tellling me how well I handled things and how much she enjoyed her time with me. I replied with a heart filled message eventually asking where the love had gone. She said she still loved me and she was lieing to herself and me. She then said she was so stressed out she had a panic attack and ended up in the ER. (on sunday) she sent me another message claiming she wanted to meet and talk things through because he didn't give this the second chance she promised. We were supposed to meet today, but she was feeling under the weather and is staying at her parents house. (were twenty and in college). I instant messaged her this morning and told her I just wanted this to end, I wanter her to come back to me. She said she wanted this to end to, either way, and that she would call me when she came back to town. There is no question of faithfulness in this. But she is very conflicted we have been dating for six months and are very much in love, but I believe both afraid of the serious nature of our relationship. I believe she will get back with me, but I can't say 100%. How can I make this happen?

1. we broke up and 10 mintues later she came back in tears and we got back together
2. On the third day after a nap she broke up with me again (after a fun filled day in which she was happy).
3. She said she still loved me and she was lieing to herself and me. She then said she was so stressed out she had a panic attack
4. she wanted to meet and talk things through because he didn't give this the second chance she promised.
5. We were supposed to meet today, but she was feeling under the weather and is staying at her parents house.


Are you sure this is what you want?

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

This relationship went up in flames a month ago, for much of the some reason it did 6 months ago. I doubted you, but you were right. I didn't want this.

You need to stop being so afc and be the alpha male in the relationship!

She is playing with your head...she shit testing you like crazy, and at this pase she is loosing more and more intrest in you every day! You need to start telling her what to do not the other way around! right now she has all the control and yes she might have feelings for you but she will dump you ass If you dont stand up to her.

You need to end things and tell her "clearly we dont want the same things and you dont know what you want...this is not a game to me and Im not goiing to be with somone who isint 100% sure they want to be with me" then break up with her.

If she wants you back make her earn it and stop sucking up to her and catering to her every need! she is the one with the problem not you! stand up to her. If she doesnt like that then move on your the alpha male and as much as you might love her you dont need her to be happy....and as hard as it might be to get over her you can do it. 9/10 If you stand up to a women like this, tell her to stop playing games, and stay calm with out freakng out at her she will shut her mouth and listen.

You dont have to be a dick but she is playing games with you and she must love the drama...put an end to it, be the alpha on in the relationship and call her on her bullshit.