I've been talking to this girl and we got really close. I like her and she likes me. She says we're dating, but we're not boyfriend/girlfriend. She says if she puts a title on it, she's going to have her feelings attached to it and she's not sure if she's ready.

I really like her and the way she puts it, it makes it seem like she doesnt want to be emotionally attached to me. I want to have that connection.

Also, right now, I feel like she's in control of where the relationship goes. She often jokes about how she's the one that "wears the pants" in the relationship.

What can I do?

Time for you to man up! Im guessing you dont have much relationship experience?

If a women ever said "I wear the pant in the relationship" I would prob say year I own the belt that hold those pants up lol always be on the ball dont let her shit test you and break down!

If she doesnt want a relationship well then walk and tell her you have enouph friends you like her and want to have a relationship but if she doesnt then thats fine there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

No offense bro but it sounds like you still have alot to learn! and if you get into a relationship with the mind set you have now you will prob either get dumped, get cheated on, or get walked all over.

Start reading up! I have a good post I posted about how to have a happy relationship and I just posted it the other day...It should give some good advice on how to deal with women.