What are some of your opinions on having more than one girlfriend?

I've been going out with Amy for about sixth months ago and my ex called me today and I know she's desperate but hell, at least I'm getting my dick sucked. lol! So, she asked me out and I said yeah. Now, I'm gonna get another girl - she has to be skinny not some fat ugly chick.

However, friday i'm going to Margret's apartment for some hours and to Amy's house on sunday. Now, has anyone had to juggle between more than two girls?

Thanks for the feed back.

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i wouldn't have more than one official girlfriend, my opinion is that with two girlfriends you cut your value in half

There's nothing wrong with it, as long as they both know that you have another girlfriend. If they don't know, that's underhanded and kind of sleazy. Honesty and trust are foundations of any good relationship.

Providing they both know and are cool with it, then there's no real issue here. At some point most people want to get married and have kids, especially women so long term it might not be sustainable.

if they are young and open, and that you are honest, it can work out, but it's a delicate balance depending on the personalities and what they are looking for (adventure vs stability). many women are willing at the beginning, but if they love you, they may hurt and not be able to handle it. it's a delicate balance.

yeap.. agree... having juggling 2 girlfriends without them knowing is a hard issue, cause u got to keep them in the dark.. kinda along that line.. but being open about it will bring you to another level.. which is you must have state your intent in the first place..

Tried it at first it was great I was ontp of the world but then it became a pain in the ass and after it got worse I decided never again. But, I wish you luck. You'll need it.

-Vann

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for my experience girls always react very bad knowing you are fucking other girls.
sometimes saying that can ruin your first relationship and can be a big problem
i hardly found girls that accept that situation.
i have a question for people that had more than one ufficial girlfriend:
how did you convince them?

valentines day is a real bitch when you got 2 girlfriends ...... lol you have to do them both ... you have to invest in both.

i stick with one high quality girl... i think you have your own shortcomings when you need / want 2 girls.... well who doesn't have issues...anyway.

some bitches can go ballistic when they find out your sleeping with another girl , you have to be honest and tell them you are around some other girl.
really some woman will try to destroy your life or worse , if you do this for too long your own relationships values and rules get fucked up.... it's like getting badass-chode in relationships

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Two is manageable if you find the right people. More than two, can't last for too long unless you start lying and it becomes tyring. To convince them, you have to be upfront. If the girl is not looking for a seirous relationship - and most of them, especially young women, aren't - then she can accept the rules. The best girl is also one that sleeps with other boys too. She will like that freedom. But if she doens't, then the balance is not there and you may have issues sooner or later. Thing is, if you have more than one girl, you still have many problems, and bottom line for me, who has been going with several women for this past year, is that it's not worth it. I just lost someone I didn't ever realized I loved. And now that she's gone and has found someone who doesn't sleep around, I feel totally fucked. Sleeping with several women can bring you a high, and you can even feel proud of yourself, after after a while the high wears down and you wish, at least I do now, to have sticked with the one I really cared for the most. But you have to go through it yourself to really understand. Good luck.

Full disclosure, make sure they know the situation.

I always go for the 3-sum (or more sum) scenario with multiple women.

Make one the official 'girlfriend' and the other a side dish.

Keep both girls in check, always be upfront and honest about everything.

If one decides to step away, do not get needy, just find a replacement.

Be prepared to deal with drama and attention getting games. If both girls are really into you, they will compete for your approval.

Keep it light-hearted and fun, this is the only way to successfully handle multiple women. If you are trying to get serious with a girl, you are better off dealing with one girl.

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You will never be able to jugle between more than one girlfriend and be honest in the same time. I always get a thing for more than one girl but most of the time its cause they are both hot. I can't say that i wont go with both cause i will but in the end its so much better to be with one girl and to know about all the other girls that want you. :)