so i've been searching around but i can't find anything specific on how to ask a girl out.

i know that a lot of guys on here aren't fans of going out of your way to ask out a girl, but i feel like the girl i've been hanging out with is pretty passive with stuff like this. I mean i would just feel like it wouldn't be official unless i really asked her. Plus i like her enough to consider a long-term thing.

advice?

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sorry for not replying. im 18, she goes to school with me. we don't hang out often but when we do we always hook up. I mean nothing past making out though, but i haven't taken her back to my house or anything.

but im hanging out with her this week and this weekend as well. i know she's into me, but im not really sure whether she wants a boyfriend or not, and i don't know how to find out without making myself vulnerable to rejection.

If u want to find out if she wants a bf without being open for rejection, I suggest try SUBTLY acting like a couple when your with her.

You have already kiss closed so the comfort is somewhat there. Watch a movie with her and escalate kino, put your arm around her, touch her arms, her legs (not sexually, to avoid rejection), kiss etc.
If your feeling confident about her comfort level, you can hold her hand in public.
All this will give you signs whether she wants a boyfriend or not, becuase itll subtly show that you want a gf.

If you become more confident that she really likes you, past the infatuation phase, let her know how you feel about her, that you enjoy spending time with her, your really interested in her, you enjoy talking to her etc.
Relationships are set when two people decide, as a couple, that they want to date one another exclusively. So your going to need to look for signs if she wants it or not. But in time you will be comfortable enough to talk about it

All the best, goodluck!
Keep us posted.

i guess its too late lol. so i took her out for lunch the other day, and we started hooking up. We both had class soon and when i realized what time it was i was like we gotta get going and i looked at her and she looked legitimately sad. I was kinda feeling good about this haha and she said she just really didnt want to go to class. I took this as her meaning she didn't want to stop hanging out.

so i stopped and i asked her what she thought of me, and i told her i liked her and she said she liked me too. I wasn't subtle at all really, and i asked her whether if i asked her out if she would say yes.

she said she would be my girl but she didn't really like high school relationships. I have no idea how to read into this, so i didn't really think about it much and we just kept hooking up. It's not a big deal, I like her a lot but if we aren't technically in a relationship yet we still hang out it still seems pretty good to me.

my plan is to just keep hanging out with her until im irresistible. I don't really think i'm going to push further in terms of being official, and why should I?