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some how youve got to get the upper hand in the relationship without her hating you---id go for push pull--put her in the position where she thinks shes doing the chasing--try what they often do to us be very friendly towards her when you meet her but also be ''sorry id love to talk but im in a hurry '' complete with big smile and said while your body speaks running away from her
This is a easy process. Like what Herne was saying you need a upper hand and from looking at your sig about highschool forum I assume you are still in highschool so this should be cake.
Basically you want to be a busy person, you always want to have something to do, be the main attraction of everything. Whenever you are at a party, like Herne was saying about being friendly, let her do her thing and you do you. Branch out and start having more girls that are friends so when you are in the hallway or whatever talking before class you have a group of girls around you. Girls assume things very fast. I don't remember who said this but no one wants someone who no one wants. If she sees other girls talking to you, she will start to wonder what is up and wonder what the other girls sees in you that she doesnt. By this she will get the indication that she has something she needs to hang on to so another girl wont snatch you up.