Hi everyone. I met this girl when I was 13 and she was 14... We're 19 and 20 now. We've talked off/on for the whole time. When we were talking, we were tight like best-friends. We made out a couple times over the years while she was single, and finally about 2 years ago while she was still with her current BF fooled around a bit. We stopped talking for the last year and a half until last week I called her up. She came over and we had sex and we've been getting along really well so far.. Last night when we hung out after I dropped her off she texted me a couple minutes later and said "so what do you want to happen between us? anything?" and told her I'd rather talk about it in person. she said 'ok because I feel like its something we need to talk about and if you're worried about me showing these texts to anyone don't be cus I don't plan on it. I feel like we haven't talked in forever and whenever we do start talking we just end up having sex" I agreed and said we'd talk about it today (last night before dropping her off she said to text her when I woke up, I did and havent heard from her all day.) When I was with her last night she also mentioned when a song came on on my iPod she liked listening to them when she's breaking up with someone (hint at breaking up with her current BF maybe?). She also said she wanted to move back close to my side of town.

One of my best friends used to be one of her best friends and doesn't talk to her anymore. But he said she probably isn't talking to me today because she's thinking about what she's going to say to try and manipulate me... he says don't move in with her, that she treated me like shit and used me in the past and she probably just wants to use me as a way out of her current life.. and to not move in with her.

How do I tell if this girl legitimitely likes me or is just trying to use me?

She alraedy knows how I feel about her.. I told her a year and a half ago I loved her and I still mean it today. I honestly can't tell you why. She's gained about 20 pounds since then (5'5" like 137ish now), and apparantly isnt that attractive to any of my friends.. and then she cheats on her BF. I don't know why I'm so drawn to her.

Why do you guys think she was ignoring me today? being ignored really ticks me off! lol.

I also couldn't sleep last night because of her texts... I asked her the first or second night we hung out what she wanted from me and she said she didn't know. But now it appears she's probably made up her mind to me and wants to talk about it... she either wants to stay FWB or move in with me and start a relationship. I'm scared of either scenario. I don't know what I want, except that I want her.