so a few weeks ago i met a chick at school (we're both seniors in HS) and i got her
number. we hung out a couple times and she told me i am one of the coolest ppl
she has ever met. we hung out some more, and we went reasonably far a few
times (not sex, just some half nude fun in my bed . We've still been seeing
each other a bit.

Here's where things get slightly less warm. Last Saturday was a good night with
her for the most part, except the end. we ended up hangin at my bud's house
playing video games, and for whatever reason (i really can't put a finger on why
i did this) i just acted slightly annoyed with her. She would text me in the middle
of a game saying "haha don't look so angry" (she was sitting next to me) and i
just gave short replies "ha ok." So dropped her off, and after i left she texted me
asking if she did something wrong. i just reassured her and said i just had some
strange thoughts going thru my head. things seemed fine.

Sunday, she seemed a bit more indifferent towards me thru texts (initiating with
me less, short answers, etc.) and it was like that up til tuesday where we talked
about "us" as a relationship in the school parking lot. she said she likes me a lot
but just doesnt know if she is ready for a relationship and she felt bad. I was cool
about it and left to the gym. My friend (her ex) informed me that she cried all the
way home after we talked. Sine then, things have been the same... we dont text
quite as much and she seems slightly less warm to me lately.

...The only things i can think i did wrong are maybe acting annoyed with her
Saturday, and maybe being a bit predictable. Also maybe not pulling the trigger
for sex, even tho we were sorta logistically restricted both times.

What do you guys reccomend i do here? I know i have a case of oneitis i dont deny
that. But i would like this girl please. I plan on gaming some other girl just to
ease my emotions. I have thought of a few options i could do... A) just chill out and
keep momentum going between us... B) tell her how i really feel about her, but
then suddenly tell her we should just be friends. Thats all i can really think of...
please help!

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First of all, messing around with other chicks really doesn't make you feel better and if she finds out you'll definitely burn a bridge with her. Assuming it is still your goal to get back together with her.

A.) That will keep you were you are now with her.

B.) If you were going to tell her how you feel then you really should have done it when you had that conversation in the parking lot. I mean you can certainly try to do it now but she's already made a decision, talked to you about it, been emotionally upset about it, and put it behind her. Getting her to reverse it at this stage is going to be very difficult.

Sorry man, might just be time to be single for a while and take some time to yourself go do the things you like doing as a person.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

hmm.

well when we did talk... i definitely told her i liked her (i said its obvious we like
each other). and after we talked she kept emphasizing to me (and her ex) thru
text that she wants things to stay the same with us and how she hoped it wasnt
a do or die kinda thing. she texted me after saying that she wants a relationship
with me but doesn't know if she is emotinally stable or whatever, and she asked
if we could just take things slowly... saying that one day she wants to be the lucky
girl that i call my girlfriend... does any of that make a difference? anything i can
do specifically about it? also... what did i do wrong lol

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