My lady friend and I have sex about 3-4 times a week and I expect more in the future. Have any of yall broached the subject of birth control and how did it go? Should I bring it up after having sex one night or when? I am really tired of using condoms; I have a hard time getting off when I wear one.

Well first of all you need to know that the pill is not 100% effective and although it is very very effective If taken properly...most women dont take it properly and have no idea they are doing so.

1. alcohol reduces the effectiveness

2. Many drugs (even over the counter drugs) reduce the effectivness

3. If it is not taken at the same time each day it is much less effective

4. even If she does every thing perfect the pill is 98% effective so there is always a slight but rare chance you could get her prego.


Now how would I go about talking to her? I would tell her that you really enjoy sex with her! and that you care about her alot! but you would like to try sex with out a condom because you have trouble climaxing...If the two of you are close then it shouldnt be an issue....ask her to go talk to her doctor its really not a big deal bro millions of women take the pill every day...