I was able to get my ex-girlfriend back by flirting with her roommate who became all nuts about me ( it only took me a few hours, i'm not that good usually ) and she then started talking to her about me all the time ( coz she doesn't know she's my ex).
So my ex got jealous and i got her back. We've been together now for the past 3 weeks and everything has been going pretty well until the past few days where i think i screwed up and lost it. Here is what happened :
- Friday : I was at work and she wanted to see me absolutely all day long. When i finished work, I called her and told her i don't think its worth it seeing her today since she's leaving in an hour to her parents place and there is alot of traffic. Then i surprised her with a msg : "seeing u one minute is worth 100 over the phone. I am waiting for you downstairs ". So she came down ( uni campus) i attempted to kiss her but she was a bit pushy, and made me feel like she wanted me to leave, although she kept asking me if she's gonna see me on sunday coz she really wants to. I left without saying bye ( in a confident way, not showing that i'm pissed really..kinda playing with her), then i sent her a msg that she can have fun with her friend ( who seems to keep flirting with her) on sunday and she told me that she wanted to spend all night with me that day, and that she doesn't want me to hate her. I told her that its ok, but that i don't like it that she takes my love for granted and that i kinda regret coming to see her. We talked later (fone) and reconciliated in a few minutes. I went clubbin, she was a bit nervous..so later that night i text her that i wish she was here..and she told me she wishes i was there in bed with her ( we just kissed until now..so that's good right???).
Day Saturday : this is my stupid day. I text her good morning and that i miss her, she didn't answer. I called her a few hours later, we talked a bit. Her phone went outa batteries..so i called later twice, she didn't answer. I sent a text saying that if something is bothering her she should let me know..then i called back a bit later and she answered saying her phone wasn't on her. I asked her if she missed me in a desperate voice ( she said yeah very enthousiastically) and i told her that its ok if i get insecure sometimes, she laughed. Then all night long she never text me good night ( we usually always talk at night, she's the sticky one but i like it) and this morning no msg
...I tried calling and her phone is outa batteries. I have a feeling something is going wrong and i fucked up somewhere..the flow isn't there anymore. N.B : she also doesn't like it when we meet someone i know and i introduce her by saying : this is my gf X.
I am supposed to see her in a few hours, she's coming back from her parents place. How should i behave guys? ( she asked for the plans on sat, and i proposed that i wanted to cook her nice food at my place. She said she doesn't wanna bother me with that, coz i felt she's scared to come to my place which = sex )
Thanx alot, alot of words here, i wanted to make things as clear as possible, coz the problem is very subtle
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