Hey guys,

It's been a year since I got into the game. Hell, I've earned respect from my peers at school and become much better conversationalist. And the best thing is, I got attraction from the girls whom I thought I was out of league before. One of them is the one in my avatar.. Still, some problems and sticking points came out from here and there

First of all, the problem here is the cultural differences of the seduction process. It's very socially inacceptable to kiss or have sex with the girl before you get into a relationship with her. Therefore, it's much much easier to have girlfriends here, due to the standards of relationship. Relationship here almost equally the same as sleeping with the girl on the third or fourth date. Revealing your hands= k-close and further.

Now my problem is that, I'm having quite strict of a rules about relationship. That's why I'm asking you guys, is this belief needs to be modified?

My belief is that, my relationship should be an inspiring one for both sides. That's why I tend to do the approach for a very long period, trying to inspire the girl or really know the girl first, then I'll make a move on her. The difference in the game is, in the west, you can have sex with her first (therefore showing interest) and getting to know the girl, inspire here and get into relationship with her. But in my country, you can touch the girl you want, but no kiss or sex before you got into a relationship with her. Therefore, your interest should be conveyed on your verbal communication. Are you guys with me here?

So, what I'm asking you guys here:

1. Should I reveal my hands faster, then proceed to the next steps? I'm just having difficulties in applying the game here.
2. Is my belief too idealistic? Should I get into a relationship first, and then inspire her later?

Thanks

Best pal,
Steven

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