I've been hooking up with this girl the last couple weeks, and have gone on one date with her. The topic has been brought up as to what exactly we are, because at first it looked like we were going to end up dating. Now she says she isn't sure what she wants and doesn't want any kind of relationship (no titles, basically). She wants to keep having sex, though. I'm cool with that situation, but then she says that while we're hooking up she doesn't want me hooking up with any other girls. I'm not really a fan of the monogamous fuck buddy idea. It's not that I have a half dozen other women lined up, but it's kind of annoying that I shouldn't even try.

When I tell friends this I get 3 opinions as to what this girl wants
a) she wants to mess around with other guys, but doesn't want me to do the same
b) she's recently been hurt emotionally by a guy and is just confused. I never asked about her dating history so I don't know.
c) she doesn't want a title so that if she wants to stop seeing me she can do so immediately. It's not a breakup if we were never in a relationship.

I want to keep seeing her, even though its just casual. My real question is, should I follow the monogamy, tell her I think it's an unfair stance, or just fuck around with other women if the opportunity presents itself.

There are some other considerations for why she wants to be monogamous with you. Women are taking a risk when they have sex at any time. There is the risk of diseases, and not to mention pregnancy. Her having sex with you is a sign that she is comfortable with you, and she trusts you. If you are messing with other women then she could catch something and not know it. Just something else to consider..

No one can really tell you what to do with this one. It's really your call on what you want to do. If you go to her and tell her that you want to keep having sex but not monogamous that's probably going to be the end of it.

If it was me... I'd keep on with her and meet other women. When it comes to the point I meet someone I really like and enter into another physical relationship then break it off with her. That would work with her rules and no completely limit you either though.

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