Alright, so I've been dating this girl for a bout 3-4 weeks. I've slept with her 4 times so far and have fclosed her, the fucking is not the problem I make her cum multiple times everytime we sleep together and we had a couple of dates where we both had a good time. The problem is I would now want a relationship with her and I probably fucked up.

She's the kind of girl that clubs alot.. I'm 21 she's 19 and I've started to get ONE-ITIS on her recently.. and I do realise it.

So last night we both go to different clubs, she texts me during the night saying how is it over there? IOI I guess since she's thinking about me. Later during the night (like at 3:00 am after club hours), I ask if I can sleep at her house she says she's sleeping at her girlfriend's house, has to work like at noon the next day, bla bla bla. We talk a bit, I end up being pissed a bit and I end the convo with her and say good night.

She then texts me back and says are you angry.

I reply:

Me: No, I just want to know what your intentions are with me

Her: You know we don't really know each other and I want to take my time, I
don't know what I really want...

Me: Alright, good night I'll come get my things at your house when I finish work

Her Good night, seb xox don't take it badly please

Alright, so that hurt a bit. If we read through the lines it means she doesn't want to really be with me. Now I know the only thing I have to do is NEXT...

I maybe went too fast with the intentions with me shit but I wanted to talk to her about what was going on with her and I. So I'm probably going to get my clothes at her house soon maybe today or another day, should I even bother talking about the situation or just get my stuff and get the fuck out of there.

Any advice, I still really dig this chick but for now I'm gonna have to look somewhere else.

Oh and I'm probably going to the same club as her tonight, lots of my friends are going there.. I might just ignore her the whole night and go see other women.

Cheerz!

my advice would be to leave yur shit at her house unless you really need it...don't bring up the nite at the club. it was late, you guys may have had sum drinks and shit happens....when you go to the club 2nite don't freeze her out. talk to her but,don't be up her ass all nite. and don't go trying to pick up women. it'll make you look like a assshole and a player to her. just go out and make having fun with yur friends the main focus nothing else.

Never feel bad for your self...there are billions of other women out there and I can tell you now that if you did date this women the relationship would have been full of drama for sure! why? because she is a party girl, a bar star, and you mix that with the fact she is 19....well you see what Im geting at?

Go have fun. go meet new people and perhaps on day when she is over the bars and clubs she will be ready to settle down and you will be the man for her...or mabey you will meet an even better match for your self in the in term.

Thanks guys, so a little update of my night yesterday with her being at the club.

Finished work at 1 a.m. she texts me while I'm working asking if I'm at the club, just respond I'm still working and then later go to it.

Over there her and one of her friends spot me but theyr're like in this VIP so I don't go. I then go and meet some of my friends in another VIP. Her friend starts texting me saying to stop ignoring us and doing the independant, I reply I'm not I just don't want to go in their VIP

DHV in the club since knowing lots of people. Go talk to some random girls with a friend and bring them back to our VIP spot. Don't know if my chick saw all of this but whatever.

My chick finally textes me saying it's my song (SERANI - NO GAMES, I should of answered No games, )! I just responded with a smiley face.

Then she texts me that she has my things in her car if I wanted them, i don't reply yet. Now during a brief time while I was in the VIP which is on top of the club and looking down on the dance floor and she, at the DJ spot since she knew the guys there and I could feel she was looking at me alot, which she was. She texted me: ''Smile'' with a smiley face, don't know why cause I was talking with one of my friends.

Later she texts me goodbye after the club closes, I answer get off your podium 2 secs.

I go meet her we talk fluff a bit say hi, neg her friend that texted me earlier and start talking more to her friend then go back to her. We then go to her car (while going I tease her a bit she's very talkative and responsive) I get my things, say goodbye and ask if they're going to eat anywhere, she says she has to bring another friend I say ok bye and kiss on cheek (no kclose...).

For some reason I knew she'd text me on the way back. She asks what I'm doing I say I'm stuck in traffic because of an accident I ask what she's doing and says were eating.. She probably wanted me to hook up but whatever I didn't answer.

She retexted me asking how I found the club that night I answered nice but there was missing body painted models (teasing her because she was already one of those models in the club but said it wasn't her kind of thing she got it offered by her promoter friends so she wouldn't do it again) she laughs saying I'm funny. Don't reply. She texts me again asking if I'm still stuck in traffic. I say no I'm at my house now. She says ok, good night I won't bother you more. I don't answer and go to bed.

Anyways I think things went well, I'll wait till she texts me back

ADVICE please on how I should take things, I know how I should but it doesn't necessarily mean I want...

CHEERZ