here's the deal...i met this hb at the end of october on face book. i ended up gettin her number and we texted back and fourth for a lil bit b4 i asked her out on a date. she agreed to having to dinner with me. so, i picked her up 1 nite and we hit off it great. there was defintely chemistry there.

a few days later i asked her out on a 2nd date. she accpetabed. so, i took her ot movies and we had a blast. her roomate kept texting her and i was joking around saying "tell your bf i'll have youhome later" and she would laugh and say " i don't have a bf and i don't want 1...to many rules" we ended the nite with a kiss. and b4 she got outta my truck she looked at me and said "now i'm sad". so, which showed me she was def interested.

as the days past we texted each other everyday. i invited her over for dinner one nite and i cooked sum food and we watched a movie. she ended up meeting my parents that nite. we pretty much cuddled all night.....a few days later i invited her over and we pretty much did the same thing we did last time. she said that her parents know about me but, they don't know my age. (she just turned 18 in october and i'm 22)

a couple days later i took her out to dinner and then back to my place. we ended up having sex. after we had sex we fell asleep in each others arms. when we woke up i had to drop her off home. on the way to her house we started calling each other babe and shit.

now, here's where my problem is.....i tried for 2 more dates since then and she said she had already made plans both times. we don't text each other that much anymore. i'm begining to wonder wtf i should do. i stop'd talking to other girls cuz, i was pursuing her. i need a outside persons view on this b4 i do anything. and i don't wanna talk to my friends about it cuz she's friends with my friends

just my opinion, but no way to know for sure one way or another. seems clear something in her mind has changed or at least is being reevaluated. could be anything-her parents objected, she met someone else, shes mentally/horomonally unstable, or possibly she has really been busy with something. who knows.

i would recommend just giving her space, chilling things out and leaving it to her. and if you can chat up other girls in the mean time to let her know you can move on, all the better.

good luck!

just my opinion, but no way to know for sure one way or another. seems clear something in her mind has changed or at least is being reevaluated. could be anything-her parents objected, she met someone else, shes mentally/horomonally unstable, or possibly she has really been busy with something. who knows.

i would recommend just giving her space, chilling things out and leaving it to her. and if you can chat up other girls in the mean time to let her know you can move on, all the better.

good luck!

btw, how the hell do you meet someone on facebook? you hit on a friend of friend or did you know her from before?

i saw her on a friends friend list and sent her a friend request. and she sent me a message asking if she knew me and the rest is history. ya see, i don't go out to clubs or parties that much anymore and most of my free time is spent at the gym. so, i gotta meet girls sum where. i figured why not face book?!

so, wut yur sayin is that i should stop pursuin her rite?! i should stop texting her and shit and see wut happens.....my friends are doing a "couples" trip to the city next friday nite. they asked me to invite her. should i even bother asking her to go or not?

yeah my advice would be to chill it out. you really dont know what going on and sometimes anything you is the wrong move. sometimes the best strategy is to do nothing.

so in the mean time, i would just prove your value and be busy with something else even if that means staying home that night. start chatting/dating other girls and see what reaction that gets you. i wouldnt totally freeze her out because you dont want to come off like a prick in case she has legit reasons. but at the same time, i would turn off your pursue mode and just play it cool. perhaps she got freaked out that you were getting too serious too soon. best strategy to me seems to meet other women. its tough to do but keep telling yourself that its the best chance you have.

yea, i guess yur rite

is it done?...yea, its done! lol...time to move on. NEXT!!