Just started dating this girl and made things exclusive a couple days ago. Tonight we had sex and it was amazing (we didn't before because she had her period). Anyways after we talked and were having a fun time. She then said "we're not having sex everytime I come over, just establishing that now" she said it with kind of a smile. I'm very sexual guy... and most of you will probably say I'll get it enough. I'm wondering if it's just a shit test so she doesnt feel like a slut. Anyone in this situation broken those "boundaries" or any commentary?

Thanks

My girlfriend said this stuff in the beginning, its really just an anti slut defense. mystery's concepts on LMR can be applied to this situation. I usually make it seem like its my idea to not have sex everyday, and then when were messing around I'll stop right when shes turned on and be like lets go watch tv. She'll be confused on why, and crave it more, or sometimes I'll be like we should stop. It just makes her feel safe, it conveys the your willing to stop at anytime message.

The best thing I've learn about girls is they like things they cant predict, she'll be so confused on why you don't want to.

then somehow everyday it just magically happens in the heat of the moment unplanned **sarcasm **

It's funny anti-slut defense is exactly what I was thinking. Thanks for elaborating on that and you gave some really gold advice spinstill. She was definitly worried about me being a player and therefore probably has the image of me being very sexually active, but I think we'll work through it

It's probably also because she doesn't want you to always expect it just because you are in a relationship now. We don't like to be taken for granted! But yeh I also agree with the anti-slut defence too.

She came over again since she said that and it was interesting what happened.. We got a little heated and I froze her out and said we should settle down. She calmed down for a minute then came at me even more then before and it eventually led to lights off and her telling me she wants me. Anti-Slut Defense 100%. Supposed to hang with her tommorow... 3/3?