Like mystery i too have an idea of the perfect girl
Big tits, emoish hair, kinky in bed etc the good things

But i have no idea how to introduce these changes to her....
heres an example of what i have don so far apart from introducing her to public sex =-]

the last time i tried organizing something with her and her mates who like me and then texting i might not make it.
When she asked why i just said texted "landing strip"
half hour later i get text saying.. Done ;-]

SO is this how i should do it? offer a reward then take it away untill she does what i would like her to. always enforcing how it would make me happy?
Or do i need to use both, reward and punishment?

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It takes a lot of balls to dump your old life and move forward ....... it also involves a period of loneliness which i have am figuring out sucks