Im a 19 and my gf is 21. we both go to the same school but she lives on campus and i dont.
Our story
we started dating at the begining of fall semester our sophmore year and pretty much have done everything make out, sex ... but we were not still in a relationship. I noticed that she was getting a little distant and i needed to make sure what was going on so i told her one weekend day i was comming over to talk. We talked to her and she told me she noticed we were getting distant and the reason she was doing it it was because she didnt want to make me feel she was bothering me or pushing me too much that made me feel really good cause i thought i was that she was starting to see someone else after a little talk i told her the exaclty the same thing about not over pushing or bothering and we agreed to oficially be gf and bf.
She is an amazing girl but the fact that i cannot be with her at school all the time kills me (im a commuter) she is foreign hb9 and i know lots of guys would do anything for a girl like that. I have found that lots of guys hit on her but she tells me about it and i guess it is good, but she likes to drink and party every weekend which makes me a little concerned. I go out with her everytime she goes partying but there might me that day that i wont be able to and i dont know whats shes capable of if she gets drunk.

Another side story.
She recently told me that one of her gfs broke up with her bf and told my GF that she was into her and she liked her. they were very good friends and they still talk and hang out and party sometimest. I really wouldnt mind if this girl kissed my gf or smtgh but idk.... the point is i get suspicious sometimes of this stuff

What do ya guys think??

she has already demonstrated that she cares about you. Just, relax. Let her party, and by all means party with her!! by putting her on a leash or worrying about it she will feel restricted and thus more likely to do something you don't want. trust her and give her your heart if thats what you truly desire back.

I bid thee fare well

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i appreciate ur reply..
i really trust her what i dont trust are the guys out there.
something i found funny is that today is the first day shes partying without me! i have a test tmrw so i couldnt go out and im thinking about her now big time.
by writing this here im not looking for someone to tell me what to do(however i would appreciate ur comments), i just want to talk to someone about my situation and hear what they think .. Ive myself read lots of pua material so its not like i dont know where i stand ill keep this post updated about whats going on between me and her

Cool you just want to tell someone and have them talk back.

My response to what you're saying is to chill out. That's the golden rule. Cause most of these problems are in your head, and pretty much the rest are not really a problem until you behave in a way that seems like it is.

You don't think much of your girl if you think all it takes is for her to get drunk to go and cheat on you, do you? You don't think much of her if you are afraid all these other guys will make her do things, because she's such a helpless girl with no mind of her own, right? Deep down it's really your own insecurities about your ability to keep a girl, putting these thoughts in your head.

Also let your girl make out with other girls. She's not gonna leave you for another girl. I know so many girls that make out with other girls just for fun. Some of them are my friends, and some of them have boyfriends, and if my girlfriend wanted to do this I wouldn't care either. They do like, close sexy dancing with each other at parties, push their breasts together and take photos, pash each other, these things happen from time to time. They are just enjoying each others beautiful bodies, and you should appreciate this wonderful, harmless sight. This is just something that girls do. It's a safe act for them, because if they did these random sexual acts with a guy he would get the wrong idea and can't be trusted. So they go to each other for the outlet.

haha. this is good noise. you do speak wise words though. hahaha

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thanks conker,
i managed to put all those insecurity feelings aside and guess what?
she doesn't like going out without me anymore! I guess im doing something good here.
keep ya guys informed

Ah that's why I like posting here