So Ive been dating this girl on facebook for 2 weeks. At first, she was very, very sweet. But also insecure. I decide "what the hell" and date her because she treates me so damn good. So basically I worked on building up her self esteem by complimenting her a little more than teasing (I know, doint be a chump but Im trying to build up her self esteem, not attract).

We went on her first date. It went fairly well, I made out with her like an hour into it. Then at the end, we cuddled in her car and a kissed her quite a bit more.

The problem is I hink I built up her self esteem too much because after our first date, she doesnt treat me like she used to and that was the reason I dated her despite she isnt as attractive physically. So should I freeze her out??? Push pull??? DHV??? How do I make her act as she used to......

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Hat3rz Gonna Hat3, Ball3rz Gonna Ball

push pull budy.

next time she txt you wait a lil while to text back.

when she wants to hang out tell her some other time you have somting you need to do ect ect.

women are like children punish when their bad and reward them when they are good...dont treat her like shit just pull away until she is acting how you want again.

Fuck yeah men Fuking push and pull ,on that bitch ! low her self esteem a lil

UPDATE: I froze her out a little and teased all her bad behavior. No know the whole thing is due to insecurity and maturity issues. I broke it off temporarily and maybe for good, said that not being official could be the best thing for us. Don't need that shit as a PUA;)

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Hat3rz Gonna Hat3, Ball3rz Gonna Ball

I am glad you are able to break it off after two weeks of facebook dating and one real date. You are definitly a PUA. NOT. PUA's don't give up after one failed attempt. Keep trying. You are missing the big picture and if you give up so easily you won't understand why you are failing.


You don't understand the GAME right now, and you don't need to give up so soon. You are not learning.

Magnum45

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Walk Hard

I agree only If he is truly into this girl? If you cant see your self with her then give up but if you can then go for it...You know why I was so into my gf when I first met her? because she was the only women I couldnt get right away...it took time, she made me think, she made me work for it, and she shit tested the hell out of me! what happend? I passed with flying colors and now we have been with each other for 8 months. Being a PUA is not about just geting laid its about geting the girl you want.

If you are new to the whole PUA game then I would recommend going out and gaming lots of women! get it out of your system or you will regret it when you are in a relationship...I have picked up many women! and even now that Im in a realtionship with a women I love somtimes I miss going out a picking up...the grass is always greener on the other side though. spend atleast 6 months going out and having fun before you settle down unless you meet a girl who you truly want to be with and she is worth giving it all up for.

No, I don't like young chicks and I was only giving her the opportunity to impress me. I wasn't really feeling it. I probably run pick up on 25 chicks a weeks average. Talking to eight different women HB 6-9 since we broke up, three kiss closes and a F-close in three days.

Maybe its just me but a PUA shouln't spend all his energy at just ONE insecure girl. Shes been texting me begging me to be with her again and I'm not interested. For real, being infatuated with a challenge is AFCish.

One more question, why would you still gme a chick you are now not interested in????? Esspecially when you are getting better catches.

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Hat3rz Gonna Hat3, Ball3rz Gonna Ball

[quote="KCBaller"]No, I don't like young chicks and I was only giving her the opportunity to impress me. I wasn't really feeling it. I probably run pick up on 25 chicks a weeks average. Talking to eight different women HB 6-9 since we broke up, three kiss closes and a F-close in three days.
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by the way you talk it sounds like you are making up for something? Why do you need to sleep with a women 3 days after a break up? Does that mean you are a better person? I don't care if "game" 25 girls a week, and no one else does either. I hope you are doing it for yourself.

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Walk Hard