So me and my one-itis finally got it together

However a few problems are occurring. And I have some questions which need answering pals.

So we kissed for the first time the other day and I don't feel like it went too well, perhaps I'm being paranoid? What should I do the next time we kiss? E.G. If I'm not happy with her kiss, think she's going too fast etc would it be okay to just stop the kiss and say "take it slow" and carry on? She's insecure so I'm not sure how she'd react?

And question. 2... Slightly more serious. I'm 17 and a virgin and while we were talking, holding, kissing etc. I noticed myself getting really hard. However what I didn't notice till after she'd left was that I'd actually cummed/pre-cummed Why is this? Is this normal? What can I do to prevent it? The worst thing is I think she might of noticed, how should I navigate this situation the next time I see her should she bring it up? Should I bring it up as a joke and to perhaps initiate the topic of sex?

Thanks guys. =)

I dont know how she is, so I wont answer question 1, but I do have some experience on question 2.
Its normal, to get hard, when kissing and having contact with a girl, specially if you're not used to that type of contact etc.
I had an experience with one girlfriend, that she actually noticed me getting hard, and she actually scooted closer to me to feel it, she liked it.
Over the time, as I started dating more girls, and getting more used to intimate contact, it became less of a "problem" .. I still got a little hard, but not to the point of precum etc ...
My opinion is that its just a matter of getting used to the touch.

Alright cool, I thought it might be. I was just a bit embarassed and wondering what she might be thinking. I saw her today and everything seemed rosey. Cheers pal.

Anymore opinions?

So what made your one-itis decided to fall for you?

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Walk Hard

I just started acting really AFC, confronted her about her feelings for me and all of a sudden she became more kinetic and "into me".