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I'm now having regular sex with a beautiful girl, but really need some help in the bedroom department!
I've read the Sex God Method and some of David Shade's online articles, all of which have been helpful, but I haven't managed to make her come! She's a relaxed, very sexual girl so it's not a psychological problem on her end. She has also come through masturbation so it's not a physical issue (she said it takes ages though).
I have tried clit (she looooves when I touch her there), G spot, both deep spots, all of which feel good, but no orgasm as of yet. I've tried combinations of them, but no luck. Does anyone have any pointers for helping her achieve the big explosion? Thanks.
I'm especially interested in anyone who's read Gabrielle Moore's stuff and their opinion on it.
I'm not sure if this is inappropriate language, so I apologise in advance for any insult I cause.
Ready for this? this is the big secret so listen up! ready? EMOTION! lol
Women are emotional creaters un like men and in order to get them turned on you need to ready do work! a women who is very turned on is alot more likley to reach orgasim for a couple diffrent reasons 1: when a women is turned on her vaginal fills with blood and becomes more sensitive and the longer she is aroused the better! and 2: she will be more relaxed and into the who experience.
It takes a good 20-60mins for a women to get turned on enouph to be all over you...a man it takes about 30 seconds to 1 min lol so you need to read up on how to talk dirty, spots on the body you can massage to get her going, things you can say ect ect.
As for during sex you should try to stimulate her clitoris while you are having sex...one way to do this is to gentaly tap or rub it while you are having sex with her and the best way is to do "dog style" and gentaly (and I mean very softly) rub her clitoris while you are in her.
Another thing you can try is having her on top and you can touch her body, grab her ass, pull her hair ect ect.
The last thing I can tell you is to be the man in the bedroom! take control and throw her around, dont task tell her "turn around" or "get on top", tell her how good it feels and how hot she is ect ect.
Oh and relax! most guys never learn to relax