So I have a question for everyone here. So my friend (we will call him Rob) that does not know about pick up managed to pick up this 18 year old HB9 that is actually a lingerie model and is absolutely stunning anyways I am getting away from my story. Well he had been kinda gaming her for a couple of weeks. Well the 3 of us were supposed to go to this party, but something had come up in that night and "Rob" was not able to come out with us. But HB9 still came out with me and "Rob" was cool with that. Well at the party she was all over me, giving me a lot of IOIs and Kino escalating me even though I was not trying to do anything to her. In the middle of the night while dancing with her she turned around and kissed me. Well I stopped her from doing that to me (as hard as that was) which only seemed to turn her on even more. I didnt tell "Rob" this cause I know he is a good friend and he really likes this girl.

Well this weekend we went to another party and the hole night she was hanging all over me again constantly initiating conversations with me and giving me IOIs and touching me again (not that it was not welcome). Well I know that my friend does not know what all this means. Anyways my friend is kinda dating this girl but everytime I come around when the 2 are together she damn near forgets about him and focuses on me. I just want to know what I should do in this situation? Does anyone know what I can do maybe to get the girl and not lose my friend? Or should I just let it run its course?

this girl is just a slut and if you don't hook up with her someone else will. are you and rob best friends? I would never recommend doing anything sexual with one of your buddies girls, but it doesn't sound like she is gf material for him anyway and you should have a buddy to buddy talk about it.

its different when you have a buddy that goes around never really getting past first base with girls and instantely getting sprung on them. i have a buddy like that and its not fair for him to tag girls i know he will never do anything with anyway so i pick up on them (unless the 2 of them are both actively interested in each other) and he's fine with it. seems like your buddy would have this chick labeled as "his" girl so be extra cautious about it if he is a real good friend.

Are they in a relationship, or just dating? Two different things.

You ever read the book "Sperm Wars"? It explains why EVERY woman does this. Usually the hotter/more successful women will do it more openly and to top it... most do not know they are doing it. Creating fights/breaking up friendships/drama ect. ect.

It was presented in the book "Sperm Wars" that even taking a look at sperm/egg behavior, the egg actually welcomes fighting amoungst the sperm before allowing an sperm to penetrate its wall. Even then, it is a matter of which sperm fought and got to the egg the quickest.

Human sexuality perfectly mimicks this. This woman is purposely (whether conscious or sub-conscious) creating a battle between you and your friend cause it is a huge shit test for her ego and her vagina... she wants the best and in her mind the best will fight for her. It is not her fault... she is not a slut, she is not a whore... she is a smart woman and doing what she was put here to do... act on her emotions.

However, we as men have to learn to act on PRINCIPALS. Very different from emotions. Emotions are free flowing and come and go... established principals are solid and do not change... that is why they are principals.

I would recommend getting the fuck out of the situation, learning more about the law of abundance, and also keeping your bro. There are PLENTY of women out there in the world, equaly and more attractive that you can meet OUTSIDE of your friend circle... especially ones involving your friends.

Be a man and live by principals... dont be a boy or a woman and act on emotions.

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Havok
"He who hesitates, masturbates."

Thank you all for your response.

But Havok123, WOW that was quite possibly one of the best replies to anything I have ever asked. That was profound, I came to the realization that I was starting to get a case of one-itis and that there are plenty more girls just like her I think I just got wrapped up in the stigma of dating a lingerie model. Maybe I will just let my friend have the win this time. I guess ignorance is truly bliss.

-Plus she has to know a hole shit load of other lingerie models.