any thoughts?

This is the longest post I've ever seen.

Anyways, you will feel when the moment is in. Have you kissed her? Do you hang out a lot? Ask yourself those typical relationship questions and then go for it.

I would say no less then two weeks but I usually wait about a month...Il date a girl exclusively but I think you should really get to know somone well before making a comitment to them.

Are you for the most part comfortable with her? You wont be 100% comfortable until a few months in but you shouldnt be shaking in your boots every time you see her lol

Have you kissed yet? If not then deff no because If you cant even kiss a women then how can you work out problems when they come along?

Are you sure she is the women for you? you dont want to regret your decision.

Dont wast your time If you think its just a fling...If you really like her though then go for it!

Depends on a number of things but ultimately ur friendship should naturally coast into a relationship. If u have known her for quite some time (a few weeks, a month) then maybe when ur all snuggled up u could just ask her wat "she is looking for out of this" and depending how she replies will be an indicator as to whether she wants to be ur gf or not.

If a girl doesnt want a relationship she would pretty much make it obvious after uve asked that question unless she just doesnt know how to tell u so.

Hope this helps

Sorry Im going contradict my self a bit...did you already know this girl? If you have known the person for a long time then it could be short....like a week but If its a new person who you dont know well at all then just take your time and dont rush it. I will say though once you know you want to be with them dont hesitate to make it exclusive and tell her you want her as a gf or she will leave you.

what are you in 4th grade, you don't ask girls out.... it just happens. Its that point where you guys just decided that you act like a couple, look like a couple, and think like a couple.... and realize you are a couple

You dont ask....it just happens when its time...knowing girls it will wreck her brain to the point where she says...so are we going out or what?....

were not in high school anymore

Don't ask a girl to be your girlfriend. Wait for her to ask you.

If you want to maintain a masculine role in your relationship she needs to feel like she is the one trying to tie you down, not the other way around.

Eventually her biological programming will set in and she will want to some kind of committment so just wait till that happens (it almost always does, unless she decides she's not into you). If your to eager to committ it will make you seem needy and easy, even if she agrees to make things more serious she'll be more likely to cheat on you because she hasn't entirely convinced herself your the one she wants.