That's right, we are in a exclusive releationship and she has not communicated with me in 3 days. Note: we did not have a fight or anything so there isn't a possiblity that she is angry. I have tried phoning her but her phone is switched off. Usually she texts me atleast three times a day - even if I dont reply back. But all of a sudden she has stopped communicating with me. I dont kno what to do???

Its a fucking test, shes trying to see how you react to her absence.

WAIT WAIT and finally WAIT.

She will search you... believe me.
When she come backs you must be strong and harsh with her, but still FAIR! Just say something as "if you absent in three days or more again, I will consider that we'rent together anymore", make it clear, dont hesitate. Dont seek for agreement, youre just informating her.

AGAIN: DON'T HESITATE

- Fu$$

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Ive heard about these tests, never happened to me though. And believe me if someone did this to me i'd end it or fuck as many girls as i could in between to teach her a lesson.

It's an unneccasary play on your emotions, totally undeserving. In my eyes, a woman who does this type of thing isn't worth having around mate.

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Errm she is going thru a bad phase though - she fialed in her tests and mite not be able to return to my college... but she still hasnt confirmed whether or not if she is returning. I told her to text me as soon as the interview was over - but still no text :S

Hum well, in that case, it might be an idea just to send her a text saying something along the lines of: "hope verything is okay with you, in the mean time could you do me a favor and let me know your okay. x"

Leave it after that, id say you can't wait longer than a week with no contact though, that's just plain rude despite what ever situation she is in.

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Maybe she lost her phone and your number?

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Maybe she lost her phone and your number with it?

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

She could be testing you. Give her what she wants. Text her saying: Are you okay? Kinda worried me when you didn't text me the other day.

Or something like that.. Put it in your own words. I was in the exact same situation as you are, and all I had to do is text her and ask if she was alright. Then everything went back to normal

Give it a try. Good luck.

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roll out, eff that bitch. If she wants to play games now, what happens when you are down the road and have given up everything and she wants to feel good about herself and pulls this shit. Theres a million girls out there

Three days can feel like a long time when youre in a relationship. In the overall scheme of things its not..so dont jump to conclusions... As men we always expect the worst in our head.

Is it the shit test or is she just completely overwhelmed by things...thats the question.

Either way ide send her a text at the week mark saying your version of

" Hey babe just checking that you were alright, im sure things are going great but i need to keep moving, goodluck with everything"

its to the point but vague at the same time....is he isnt he breaking up with me but also HAPPY....it shows you care but your also ready to keep moving forward regardless.....when writing think i am happy regardless..

Goodluck with it bro!

Thats not good, if a girl does that its only if you havent responded to her texts/calls so often that she wants to make u see how it feels by doing the same in return. Also girls may do this to see if you actually care about them (but only if u constantly give her the impression dat u dont care about her). Either way judging by your circumstances I dont think its a test. If she is going through a bad time girls do all kinds of funny things, but if you lot are an exclusive couple you should be the one she comes to. Does she know where you live? If she lost her phone and your number she would come and find you knowing full well that, that is the only way of getting in contact with you. Even if a girl was testing you if you are exclusive I doubt she would go for 3 days without seeing u unless u had a fight/fallen out or she found out something about u dat she shouldnt have (u cheated on her). There is so many reasons for why this could be, maybe u should just send her a text, ask her friend, go over to her place or watever and FIND OUT wats up. Your the man so go and find out wats up. At the end of the day if you are "exclusive" most of this PUA stuff shouldnt neccesarily come into the picture, it should all be natural game but at the same time it depends how long you have been exclusive for?

By the wya do u like this girl alot?

Not to talk to her? ...

I would appreciate if you expanded your response there. For my own future uses, that is.