Ok so heres the deal. My gf's best friend is prob the worst best friend you could imagine your gf having....she is very negative about everything! she mooches off my gf all the time and takes advantage of her in many ways! shes a horrible friends and I cant understand why my gf considers her a best friend? she also is very promiscuous! and that a generous word to describe her at best lol I would not be suprised if she has slept with over 60 guys and shes only 20....If I show any affection towards my gf around her she says it gross???? I mean a hug, a slight kiss...any thing.

My gf is a bit of a people pleaser but the problem is her "best friend" walks all over her and she takes it because she just wants her friend to be happy...but were do you draw a line? I mean she wouldnt put up with this kind of behaviour if I was to act that way. I really am fed up with her friend and I think alot of the problem could be that she doesnt have alot of good friends...and most of her friends that she does have are shity friends. Also she has known this girl since she was very young so they have a "bond".

I know friend are part of the package but what If the friend is holding my gf back? shes lazy, manipulative, and I know my gf cant trust her so I deff cant!

The next time she is getting walked over stand up for your women, you won't lose her! Tell her in future you'd prefer just the two of you to go out and let her know you don't like her friend.

Yeah but first make sure your gf loves you more than her best friend.

Oh I have told her how I feel...I have told her I dont appreciate how her friend treats her and disrespects our relationship. My gf and I hung out last night (the first night my gf has had of work all week) and she told her friend that she might go to the bar with her...well she didnt she hung out with me and of course she got a nasty txt from her friend saying that shes not a good friend ect ect and that she should get her priorities strait.

I cant stnad this girl! my gf didnt txt back but I know she will prob end up sucking up with her friend or doing somthing nice for her because she will feel bad. I actually want to confrot her friend but I dont know If that is a good idea.

Haha, sounds like this other chick is jealous she can't find a man. Confront her, but be nice. It sounds is if she doesn't know what it's like to be in a relationship with someone. Tell her you'll find her someone special.