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PostPosted: Sat Oct 17, 2009 7:55 pm 
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So before I give the rundown of what happened. Let me first tell my situation.

Short version:
Met a great girl who was here on vacation. Left today to go back home (3,000 miles away) and I really want to keep her in my life....and for good reason (read below).

I actually have family in her town and want to plan to go out there in 2 months to visit (conveniently visting her as well). I don't know if it's best to basically either:
1) leave her alone for now and just remain a high value male. Keeping lightly in touch via text, facebook, mail,etc. and then try to hit her up when I'm out there

or

2) continue our interaction and keep tight contact with her while remaining non-needy and just trying to maintain some attraction until we can see eachother again

I would normally just let the girl go (we spend just 2 days together) and move on, but we really hit it off well, she's a no-doubt-about-it 10, and to top it all off, she's a movie/sitcom actress

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Full version:
I work at a high-end guest house at the beach. The town dies in the off season and sarging here is difficult. I get blessed ocassionally by a very beautiful girl staying with us by herself or with parents, and i always do my best to show her a good time.

Yesterday, I met easily the most beautiful girl i've seen in person in a long time. A 10 no doubt about it. It was my day off and I saw her and her Mom in the dining room. I conveniently came up to fill a water bottle and got in to set.

Ran very solid game, negging the girl and really hitting it off with her Mom. I invited them to go for a walk, but the girl had to shower (she just ran) so I tried to score brownie points by taking the Mom. her and I went out for an Hour and had a great time.

Took the two of them later to a nice beach here, just the 3 of us and got some isolation and kino escalation with the girl. Any time her mother would go off to the side or something, i'd escalate kino a bit more and really worded on qualifying her, to which she did, every time.

We get back to my guesthouse for 'happy hour' but her and I go down to my room to 'meet my cat' and we have some drinks, fun, and end up making out for half an hour after a lot of kino (mainly through palm reading, I know cheesey, but worked very well, including some negs about her wrinkly old-woman hands, lol)

***by the way. I normally use a kiss gambit. but this time, i really just kissed her mid-sentence. even a bit ackwardly, lol. It worked great and taught me that you don't have to use game for EVERYTHING. sometimes, just ball up and kiss her if you have IOIs****

We now have build comfort in the seduction location, the three of us got dressed up and went out to a 5-star restaurant. I was nervious at the restaurant because they sat on the same side of the table and I on the other with the wall to my back (so i'm the focus of their attention all night) I handled it well and we all had a great time.

We got back home and Utilized the hot tub after hours with her and her mom.

then the mom went to bed and her and I continued on in the steam room and sauna. I DID NOT progress anythign physical here, because i Knew it was cliche and we weren't going to have sex in there anyway. so just build comfort and built attraction

got back down to my room (conveniently in our baithing suits) and progressed to sitting on the bed, laying on the bed, cuddling and making out on the bed, etc etc

****all the while, she would say "I have to get going" and I said "yeah, you really should go" as i continued to kiss her. This tolken resistance is KEY. Logically saying that you should stop, while physically progressings is probobly the best way to overcome LMR (at least in my experience)****

No sex, but everything else.

she told me she was an actress, but not to what extend (to which I found out later)

Now...they had to leave today. and I got on google to check her out. Turns out she's a freek'n hollywood actress being in 10 movies and tv shows as listed on IMDB. I feel like the fact that we built this interaction without my knowledge of her status gives me an advantage because we know it's 'real'


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I liked her a lot and wanted to continue something, but played it non-needy and let her go after a nice goodbye.

I would normally just let her go, but she's such a high value girl, that I really want her in my life.

So please help guys.

First question. She told me she was an actress, but didn't tell me to what extent. Why? and do i now have an advantage because we hit it off when I didn't know that? and should i not mention that I found out?

Second. She lives in Canada far far away from me. But conveniently, I have family in her town! perfect excuse to see her. How can I do this without coming off freek'n needy?

Last. Is it best to try to maintain attraction, or just have casual contact and remain a high-value male

I've had long distance relationships before. but this would be very difficult. she's so pretty that i'm sure she's approached ALL the time. There's a vast distance between us (although I may be living near that area in a year by coincidence). and we only have one passionate night to base anything off of.

am I crazy to even try to make anything out of it?

Thanks guys


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 9:05 am 
This kind of thing happened to me, I started with the intention of talking to her when I was there, just keeping contact when it was convenient (it ended up going for months) and not expecting anything, eventually we realized we wanted to be with each other and I ended up in a long distance relationship.

My point is not to expect anything from it, but stay in contact and just do what feels right. If nothing comes from it you have someone to hit up when youre there, and if something does then you have a long distance relationship that you can conveniently visit


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 10:43 am 
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This kind of thing happened to me, I started with the intention of talking to her when I was there, just keeping contact when it was convenient (it ended up going for months) and not expecting anything, eventually we realized we wanted to be with each other and I ended up in a long distance relationship.

My point is not to expect anything from it, but stay in contact and just do what feels right. If nothing comes from it you have someone to hit up when youre there, and if something does then you have a long distance relationship that you can conveniently visit
how long did you guys keep in touch before seeing eachother again?


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 1:51 am 
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This kind of thing happened to me, I started with the intention of talking to her when I was there, just keeping contact when it was convenient (it ended up going for months) and not expecting anything, eventually we realized we wanted to be with each other and I ended up in a long distance relationship.

My point is not to expect anything from it, but stay in contact and just do what feels right. If nothing comes from it you have someone to hit up when youre there, and if something does then you have a long distance relationship that you can conveniently visit
how long did you guys keep in touch before seeing eachother again?
A few months


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