It took me a long time to orgasm as well. When I was with my first boyfriend, he didn't give me my first orgasm until 3 months of having sex. And before this, I had never had an orgasm from fingering or masturbating. I think it was in my mind as well as in his moves. I felt unbelieveably comfortable with him and he would spend a lot of time just on foreplay for me. Lots of kissing, cuddling, stroking and whispers of dirty talk and what he wanted to do to me. The g spot and clit is definitely a great place to start. You just have to get her totally in the mood, make sure she is really wet and then work your magic. Some girls also get really turned on by porn-maybe she is one of those girls and it's worth a try? Just take your time with her and don't get frustrated or impatient. Ask her exactly what she wants, where she wants it and how fast or slow she wants it. Good luck!!
