so this girls coming down to my city in a couple days who i had a sexual and emotion bond with for a while but it died down, and now its kind of starting up again since shes comin down to my city. So i was talkin to her online for a while and i was kind of pissed off because of some other things but i was kind of being a bitch to her than started being sweet all of a sudden, well she called me "bipolar" and than i said i was just messin with your emotions your too easy to bug... she friggen turned it around on me and started acting like we weren't gonna do shit but talk and thats all when she came down.

I was like, are you on crack you were just talking about kissing a couple days ago, than she said haha i was messing with your emotions ... so she said we're gonna talk for one day only not do anything but talk.... and she said you'll just want me more;)... i told her "haha you just commited "the i want you more game" suicide with me cause you wont be able to resist me..


So 2 questions..... based on my above situation

1. ANY TIPS on what to say or do when im with her to dial up the attraction somehow without her trying to resist so much... ?

2. should i grab a girl and start grinding with her on the dancefloor infront of her to make her jealous with envy... does the "hey i need a dance partner to make this girl jealous" ever work?

Well the post title is old flame my advice you knwo her already so you have to go back to basics and do what you did back then. She might be think it is all over but try and say things that imply that since she was out you met tons of new people.

than she said haha i was messing with your emotions

Get used to that, it's like a f*cking sport to them. What you have to do is counter it and don't let yourself get sucked in.

Keep up the banter and play hard to get. It will drive her nuts if you show interest, but do not respond sexually to her advances.

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