Alright, its Saturday morning and Im hungover as hell! Great night though!
Here's my lil problem. Last Thursday I was talking online to a woman I was dating last year. At the time I went through a rough period of life and she ended up dumping me on Christmas Day. Read that again.

I understood at the time and I was better off being single for the time being anyway. We went our ways, but we still remained friends. Whenever we see each other we still flirt a little bit. Giving each other IOI's, you know the deal.

So last Thursday after not having seen her for a little while I ask her how her love life is. She tells me she is dating a guy 10 years younger then her and it's just a little fun but at the same time she really likes him and for the time she wants to be with him. Now here is where I am confused. After this she tells me Im very special to her and that she will still flirt with me. That same day she changes her facebook status from single to relationship.

Maybe its me. Reading back on it I sound pretty damn AFC. But when she told me..that minute I was just completely confused and bothered after alll this time. Im feeling as though it is some sortof push-pull trick. One minute she's hot..the other she's cold.

Why on earth would she date some guy she has half an interest in and then tell me she will still flirt with me? Creating jealousy? She cant be alone? She hasnt got a clue what shes doing?

Some advice would be appreciate. Either way. Im just glad i can kinda unleash it on here. Comments or no comments.

Nitrogen.

i don't know .. maybe she's just a problematic type or maybe she is retarded who knows ?

i learned one thing, if a woman says she has a boyfriend you telegraphed your interest.
or maybe she wants to keep you as second choice
she wants to make you jaleous - like she wants to DHV herself.

its possible she dates multiple guys ....

NEVER AND NEVER get confused when a woman says '' i got a boyfriend or im interested'' you don't know its true.

35 % of the girls will say they have a boyfriend as status protection shield.

in your situation ..... i would neg the shit out of her.

Sh eis playing with your emotions. Women love to do that. They always keep a back up guy to flirt with. Sometimes they may be out of love with their present boyfriend for 3 months but they would not break off until they have anothey guy lined up. I just got out of a 3 yr relationship myself.

ok thanks both for your advice.

I dont really care if she's dating some other guy now. She can go right ahead with it. Perhaps it is that she just wants to make herself feel good. I asked her how her lovelife was and she told me that.
Good point that I perhaps shouldn't have even asked her for starters.

She is giving you an invitation to flirt with her so go ahead and flirt. Game her because she wants to be gamed. Use some NLP and bang her good.

perhaps shouldn't have even asked her for starters.

Exactly...

All women care about is how THEY feel and getting their own needs met, which is why they are always playing these stupid little games, to get a reaction...because it makes them feel good.

If you want to p*ss a girl off, don’t give her a reaction when she comes looking for one.

I recently had a girl send me a pic of her and a close friend in bikini tops. She told me, this is to make you sweat. I said ‘sweetie, I don’t sweat, you will have to do better than that’. It through her into a tailspin, but I could care less. A few days later, we were romping around my bed.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene