I love being a PUA, not only because of the picking up girls stuff, but its also fun to "build a life"...
There used to be a certain point, when going out with a girl, that I would stop seeing her, to stop myself from being emotionally attached.
I was seeing 3 girls ... 2 of them have told me they really like me. I feel they're getting emotionally attached to me, and I feel like I may be emotionally attached also.
This is the part I don't like. I don't like giving myself to someone, opening myself, opening my heart.
I know relationships can be beautiful, but I'm afraid of getting hurt (I haven't been hurt in a relationship) but the fact that I see friends of mine almost wanting to kill themselves over a girl/guy. For me, a relationship doesn't last more than 2 months. I get bored, or I want another girl. Seeing how I could basically "pick up" any girl. Sometimes I tell to myself, that being in one, long relationship, where I could actually introduce the girl to my family, to my friends, etc...

Is anyone on the same boat as me?
What can I do? I don't want to be the guy that guys picking up girls just for fun. I actually want a relationship, but I don't like to open myself and expose my heart for it to be hurt...

At the start where you not scared to approach girls? Afraid you might get rejected and this would hurt you. But you ovcercame this problem and just approached. Similarily I advice to begum just a bit open with the girls you like in particular, how do you know that your releationships are only lasteing 2 month because of your fear of getting hurt.

Adilinar.

If you start a long term relationship, you most likely WILL get hurt. It is even possible you'll get hurt so much that you'll even WANT to kill yourself, like your friends.

However, I guarantee, you'll also be happier than ever. Two sides to the same coin. And in my opinion, it is worth the risk, worth the tears.

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Better to have loved and lost....

Either way, maybe you just haven't found the right girl yet. They may be into you but you haven't found a girl that you don't think is worth a LTR. Just keep looking and try to find one who you think is worth putting your emotions on the line.