Problem:
I dunno how to break up with this girl...
started off as a fling...
super needy, she was a virgin...
now im stuck with her because i dunno how to break up with her...the problem lies in that
we are part of the same "friends circle". we used to be best friends, then i started running some game on her for fun, i f closed almost 2 weeks after i began running game.

SO, i really wanna stay friends but im afraid her clingy-ness will make any attempt at a break up hurt her to the point she wont want to see me. Also, i don't wanna hurt her at all, she's been through enough.

plz help gentlemen!

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"Everything's eventual"

"Its not you its me"

Hahaha.... Very good, you deserve it. Who asked you game a good friend when there are sooo many women out there. I am sitting and laughing at your state.

OK I read this thread once that said, and I think it works, go complete AFC on her. Get Mushy do everything that an AFC would do to get a girl's attention. Stick your guns for 3 months with being an AFC around her, She would run screaming in the other direction from you .....

hahaaa...

bleh, i was starting out lol

anyway i thought of that too...but fuck my life she's too into me to care about wtf i do :/

And LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL "its not you, its me"

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"Everything's eventual"

Yuck, if you go AFC you will probably lose her as a friend too...

lol you're probably right, so what do i do!!!

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I actually think that going AFC is a horrible idea. She was a virgin (so she will naturally cling to the first guy she has sex with), she is a girl (so she will naturally cling to a guy that she has sex with). She probably has this whole fairytale image of your relationship set in her mind and if you go AFC then that will just feed into it. If you don't want to be the boyfriend, then you can't do boyfriend like things.

In the future, don't sleep with close friends or else this will happen. But I won't focus on that because it is in the past. I don't think there are any right words to say...she is going to be hurt no matter what you say. But the longer you wait to say it, the more it will hurt her. Tell her you aren't looking for a girlfriend SPAM. Tell her that you think she is great and what you had was awesome but you value her as a friend and don't want to complicate things. I don't know if that is the best thing one could say, but that is my suggestion.

THANK YOU.
& i learned my lesson...

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"Everything's eventual"