...should not be available to others.
When you write emails to your friends, and chat to them on Instant Messengers, you write dumb ass, fucked up, and somewhat private things - and you don't expect other people to be able to access them.

My friend recently has started to leave his email and MSN open all day, and allows his SPAM to use them. So they use his MSN and gmail sometimes. That means they have access to all the chat history between him and I, and him and anyone else.

One of the girls he lives with wants my cock (and I have given it to her numerous times). Today I spoke to her on my friend's email. It's almost beyond doubt that she went through the chat history between him and I. There a LOT of weird, disturbing shit in there, as well as personal information about relationships and girls and various stuff like that.

Does anyone agree with me that this is bollocks?

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The “Four Fs” are the four basic drives that animals (including humans) are evolutionarily adapted to be good at: fighting, fleeing, feeding, and reproduction.

There's nothing you can do about what she already knows. Talk to her about it and see if she has gone through his account. But before that...

If I were you, I would borrow your friend's computer as soon as possible and erase all compromising information between you two. If other people can get access to it, you should be able to as well.

And by the way, watch what you say online... you never know where it could end up.

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-The good can never be measured, but the great can never be controlled-

Wise words

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The “Four Fs” are the four basic drives that animals (including humans) are evolutionarily adapted to be good at: fighting, fleeing, feeding, and reproduction.