Ok... So here's the deal. I was on a break with my now ex-girlfriend last summer. I worked with a girl who I really liked. We started hanging out and eventually started hooking up. When we went back to college we kind of left things open and said we will take things as they come (2 different schools by the way). I ended up getting back together with my girlfriend (big fucking mistake) and kind of brushed off the girl from the summer (big fucking mistake #2). Fast forward through the year and my girlfriend breaks up with me right before we come home for the summer. It turns out that the girl from the previous summer is working with me again. We start talking and one of her friends tells me that she has been "seeing someone" during the year. She ends up coming to a party of mine and kisses me before she leaves. We start talking more/going to dinner (one on one) and making flirty comments towards each other. When I was honest and told her that I still had feelings, she told me that the feelings that she had aren't there for her anymore. What she says makes me believe that the feelings are gone for her but what she actually does (texts/calls me/asks for favors/flirts) leads me to believe that she might have feelings still. How do I go about dealing with this shitty situation? I don't know wheather to play it cool and don't text her or try to chill with her, or take the other approach and always be flirting with her/trying to forward my progress.

P.s. she never once mentioned the fact that she has a boyfriend to me regardless if she already might know that i'm aware of it.

THANKS FOR THE HELP GUYS

I cant give advice as such but i can tell you what id do,but im not expert. I'd play it cool,id still see her/chat or w/e. Although id keep a certain distance for her, Id make it seem as though ive also lost a bit of interest but still keep her in the link. Cut down on texting her perhaps. How often does she text u/call? If she does a fair amount of that I'd try to not text back quite as much as i would have done. HOWEVER, like i said dont just ignore her, sure flirt a bit, i would try and make sure she subtely knows i like her yet not come across as 'pushy'. Try to let her know you also have other options.

It does obviously depend on what type of girl she is. In general though most people want what they cant have. Most girls quite like a chase so being a bit mysterious to them and taking a step back is often quite a good tactic.

Hope this helps.

This is soo simple !! Just keep flirting with her over texts etc... Dont you ever ever tell her again how you feel. Keep all those feeling inside. Just keep flirting with her and what we guys call 'gaming' her. Eventually make out and hook up but dont be needy or ask her to be your GF. just relax and sit back and enjoy the flirting and sex.

Do it without a doubt. believe me I have experience with this.