Alright guys i have never had this situation happen to me before but I expect to learn from this and from any knowledge that is given.Sorry if my story is long but really would like some incite on this thank you.

So I have been talking to a girl for maybe 2 months she just transferred from another university to mine and we knew about each other in high school. But we had sex and couple dome shots she gave me every once and a while.She started to really catch feeling for me hardcore calling me hun babe and that shit. So about a week ago I get a call from her asking if she is just a booty call and she doesnt have sex with guys as fast as me. So I am like whatever speech which I told her I was interested.

I was starting to catch feeling for this girl so I stop having sex with girls on the side and she said ok lets start dating. Which I am ok with but the problem is I am out of town about hour and a half away from her since she is doing summer school and I am working back at home.

This morning I get a call from her at 2 in the morning don't answer she texts me and says she needs to talk so I call her back. She starts crying on the phone and says she had sex with a guy Friday I sat there on the phone for almost 2 hours which I just wanted to hang up the phone with all the sorrys I kept hearing. I told her I was shocked and disappointed, told her I would sleep on it and come up with a solution to this situation

I get a three page text messages about 5 mins after we hang up saying she sorry and she wants only me and made a mistake and says it will only make her wiser and I am a good guy who deserves the best and she wants to be the best for me if I allow her.

Like I said sorry if it was long but this was only the place I could post and gets someones knowledge on what I should do but I was going to make her wait a couple days before I give her an answer make her wait it out. Any help is greatly appreciated thank you.

p.s. this girl would have possibly been my first girlfriend since elementary school. I have been single ever since and just having sex because I was thinking as a Pua that if a girl is having sex with me on the first night 90% of the time she is going to do it with a another guy if possible. I know people are going to say it was early you caught it before anything really escalated but what would you do?

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IMO you should ditch her. your relationship started our on a horrible note! she already cheated so imagine what she will do if you two ever run into trouble, get in a fight ect ect....

I know its hard to think of not being with her because you are prob really starting to like her but she didnt respect you enouph to be faithful. She will prob do it again even if she says she wont. Women are emotional and words mean nothing...she can say she wont cheat but so what? Im sure she would have told you that before she cheat as well so it really doesnt change any thing does it?

I would tell her how you feel, tell her she doesnt respect you and saying sorry isnt enouph...she will prob blame it on booze or somthing dumb and at that point you can then tell her she is making excuses and you dont think you can be with somone who is not on the same level as you.

If you still want to be with her I would take a break and let her know how much you are hurt by what she did. I would also let her know that the thought of her with another guy makes you sick to your stomach and that she needs to prove she cares...make her work for you bro! dont be a dick just be honest and make her work her ass off for you....she messed up not you.