A friend hooked me up with her cousin from another state. The whole purpose was to get me a date to prom. The night i first met her, we really connected on a very intimate level and everything was perfect. We cuddled, kissed etc. on the very first night. We went to Prom and pretty much hit it off with a bang. So last week after she went back to her state. I asked her out and now we are going out. Everything is going great so far. In the back of my head i could feel that this relationship is going to get dry and she is going to lose interest. What are some things i can do to spice up the relationship and make it last. I have strong feelings for her. She is planning to come down for the summer and vice versa.

We've been texting and calling almost nonstopp.. but after awhile the converstation gets boring. Need help to spice things up.

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I've been through it all,
the fails, the falls.
I'm like niagra
but I got right back up like Viagra.
-Tha Carter III

As soon as it gets dry its time to move on.. Just take it as lessons learned for your next one..

My relationships; I try to pick her up every time I meet her as if I never knew her before form the opener to the close. Its a win win creating some new routines in the process that can have potential when sarging.

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

I have been in two long distance relationships. One that was from two different states, and another one that was two different cities. My room mate has been in a long distance relationship. My other friends and family have also been involved. NOT one of them has ever worked out.
They are too emotionally draining and time consuming, and the break-up is much more terrible than a break up that is not long distance because you feel like you wasted all the effort in maintaining that relationship.
My advice: break up and find someone new in your own city, it will save you thousands of hours of time and emotional consumption.

Now to answer your question if you choose not to take my golden advice! Phone sex, be sexually suggestive tell her that your horny and you want her etc.. etc.. by no circumstance do you mention drama, you guys don't get to see each other or talk to each other very much so its a buzz kill!

Quit talking and texting so much because it will get boring. Call her or text her less, but when you do text her and call her make it count.. make it exciting or sexually suggestive that way when she sees it she begins to look forward to all your texts and calls.

Maybe webcam chats?

I think i am going to take your Golden Advice. The thing is we are soo deep in this relationship that if either of us back out.. It is going to be terrible. I don't want to hurt her because shes been through enough. Thanks for the tips guys.

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I've been through it all,
the fails, the falls.
I'm like niagra
but I got right back up like Viagra.
-Tha Carter III

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