Hi all

I don't consider myself to be a PUA or anything but I have read a lot of the material etc and have had a fair degree of success. My ultimate objective has always been to find a HB10 GF but I confess that I've been a bit of a player over the last year or so.

Recently I've found a HB10 who is now my GF. Ironically I didn't meet her whilst out sarging but I digress.

Anyway, Unfortunately I've built up a bit of a reputation and whilst I have been totally faithful to my GF I was wondering what others think about me "coming clean" about my past.

I worry that one day we will be out and one of the previous "dates" will cause me problems or that someone will tell her that I'm a player (which I no longer am). Or is it better to let sleeping dogs lie and if the problem arises just tell her its all the past as far as I am concerned.

This.

On a somewhat related note, you shouldn't be concerned about her dating history either. The only moment that truly exists is the present, so enjoy right now and let the past be.

Your boy,
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I worry that one day we will be out and one of the previous "dates" will cause me problems or that someone will tell her that I'm a player (which I no longer am).

If someone tells her you are a player, they are only doing you a favor. Believe me, girls like the challenge and excitement that goes along with dating a player (or x-player). If she gives you any slack, tell her to deal with it or move on.

You are better off being a player than a nice, AFC wussy boy.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

This is soooo true. She will think that she snagged you out of your player lifestyle. To her, you are a huge accomplishment.

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Date Coach Chris

Amen. Both well-said.

Well, ya never know. With all the STDs going around, I'm not quite sure about that. At least with those that aren't players (yes, I'm one of the few that can act their age around here), they dont have to worry about spreading an STD.

With that said though I'd agree with not bringing up your past but with what I said, it MIGHT also be a good idea to do so.