Hi

This is my first post as i made a pretty major error last night and ned your advice on how to fix it.

Basically im seeing this girl who im definataley in love with, she feels the same. I played some awesome game i think to get her. She left a serious relationship for me. But lately i've started get way to clingy and needy and instantly i can see a difference in the attraction levels.

Last night i took it a step too far, i txt her, didnt get a reply, then txt her another 2 times throughout the evening, i had a jealousy overload. This morning i sent her a shitty txt saying it was out of order for her to ignore me. Turns out her phone was playing up and she didnt even get my txts ( i know this is true coz other people couldnt get hold of her). She started saying "im being clingy and need to stop pressuring her". This is pretty bad. But then i went and made it a whole load worse by groveling for forgiveness all day. Now she isnt even replying.

Its not relationship ending, we're very serious and it will blow over but i seriously need to get the upperhand back and make her stop thinking im this needy possesive guy.... whats the best plan of action? Im thinking dont text her for a day, but if she texts me and i dont text back it will be obvious im just playing some petty game seeing as i spent all day moaning at her for not texting me

Thanks a lot

Press the reset button on your game, start it over like the begining. PLay off the whole situation. Don't ignore her but try and do your own thing for the next week or so. That was a pretty AFC move so you need to do the flip mode and go back to being Alpha. If you do your own thing, (club W/friends, etc..) and don't be the first to initiate convo than that should show your not a jealous nut, without her.

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sounds like good advice thanks.