I'm in a relationship with a HB8 , and i'm not sure if she really loves me.
Here's why ; I went to this party and i think i saw her for a half hour , and that's all.
The hole night she stood with these other guys .
And i was pissed about it so i told her and she responded that she doesn't like to be with her bf at parties.

Is she playing ?

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There's an old saying about love: "If you have to ask, then the answer's no."

haha I was just going to say the same thing! If you have to ask then no she prob does not...but who knows mabey she does and she is just a really social person.

I find it odd that she didnt want to be around you because when Im out with my gf she likes to be around me and likes introducing me to her friends...and we are not "in love" yet.

To be honest Im not even sure what "Love" is or what people think it is? I think its a word people (especially women) throw around to make them self feel all warm and fuzzy inside. I mean really I dont think I will feel any diffrent about my gf now or a year from now...Im crazy about her and I hope I am always this crazy about her! so I guess you could say I love her but society tells me its to early to love her haha

Honestly bro I wouldnt worry about it because at the end of the day love is just a silly word....do you like her? does she like you? do you treat her well? does she treat you well? If you can say yes to all ofthe following questions then it doesnt matter.

I hope my rant could be of some help lol

Well i'm not in love with her , I just like to be with her.
Actually I don't think i would be hurt when we would break up.
I just want to stay in control in the relationship.

Now i have to admit that she really likes me because she doesn't go fast into a relationship unless she loves the person.
But sometimes she says things like ; We'll prob be broken up in a few weeks.

And that's when i have doughts

I'm quite familiar with that kind of person. Yes, she could be inlove with you but just wants to be social, or she's not too comfortable being someone's girlfriend at a party. She's probably used to hanging out with friends and no boyfriend. well there's no harm in that. you can do the same, like hangout with other girls but don't make her jealous coz it will show and it will make you look stupid. just have fun talking to your other girl friends. that might get her attention.

I'd dump her.

You guys are too nice.

Let's not take security as a man too far. It's like another guy sitting, uninvited, on your Harley. Fuck that. My bike.

Cheers.

I dont get it....why have a gf if you dont see a future? I wont be with a girl unless I can see my self with for the long hall! because other wise I could be hookin up with other women.

Because she's hot.
And i'm 16 , i don't want a LTR.

Oh wow your young!! I thought you wer in your 20's....man dont worry about it then! your in highschool just enjoy life and have fun. Girls come and go in highschool and any one your with in highschool you prob wont even talk to after your done highschool.