K Ive been friends with this girl for a while now, and I knew she liked me and I liked her and I pulled the trigger on saturday, and ended up f-closing on monday nite. It was my 21st bday on monday and while we were taking shots, and she decides to give me a bday present with a card that reads" Hey hun, Im happy to be spending time with you! xoxo Happy Bday Babe!" I was shocked as hell cuz I didnt know if shes my gf yet cuz we talked about taking things nice and slow. BTW the gift was a couple of dvds, but still. My friends also say that its not official till its on facebook lol, the semester is close to being over and I told her i was going to visit her over the summer. She got out of a 3 year relationship a while ago bout 3 months ago, so I know she doesnt wanna rush things. Was having sex a bad idea in this case of rushing things? Any ideas on picking up on the pace on how she wants the relationship to go emotionally, and time being spent together?