My girlfriend and I have been going out for 8 months now. Before we started going out, I was talking with her best friend. When she got back with her old fling, I started talking to my girlfriend and we've been going out for a while now. But every now and then she gets these jealousy attacks where she thinks I still like her best friend, when in all honesty I don't anymore. The most recent occurance was a few minutes ago, and now I'm looking for help on this. A little story on what happened...

My girlfriend and some of her friends all went to North Carolina for spring break. I have school so I couldn't go. She went with her best friend (mentioned above) and other people she used to hang out with a lot. Within that group is this kid who used to want to date her, but she wanted to only be friends with him. After that (this was long before me) they stopped talking for a while, but since we got together we've gone over to his house a few times for parties. Anyways, he told her before they left that he wanted to get close like they used to be while on vacation. I just shrugged it off, I don't think she'll do anything.

Her best friend has a new boyfriend who didn't go either, but her old boyfriend is there. So last night my girlfriend tells me her best friend wants to get back with her old boyfriend, and I tell her to let her best friend do it so she can have a bed (she is sleeping on a couch). So she texts me today saying, "seeing these couples makes me wanna smother you with kisses... =( youre too far away." So i respond with "smother up on *another girl that went, her bf is one of my roommates*, is *best friend* still going after *old boyfriend*" and she comes back with "youre more worried about *best friend*'s dumb drama than i am". I ask if she's joking and she says maybe, so I get pissed at this point because I know she thinks I care more about her best friend than her. So I say, "mmk im gonna stop talking to u for a while before i get mad... call me when youre done thinking i like *best friend*".

I mean this isn't the first time this has happened, it really pisses me off when she does it and she knows it does. What should I do here? I'm really getting sick of it, me and her best friend aren't even in the same state and she still gets jealous. I mean really... what the fuck.

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Man, use this on your favour, put yourself in the center of a triangle, between your girlfriend and her friend.
Just make this, and ignore it all, as nothing is happening. This creates tension and makes you more "desirable" on her eyes.

Fu$$

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my current gf gets VERY jealous. I contrast this with my previous gf, when i was AFC, who did not give a FUCK. jealousy is good because it show just how much she wants you all to herself. at the same time, it can sprial out of control. what i would do is just tell her that she has to be more secure with you, because when she is too jealous, it really bothers you.