hey everyone,
can anyone help with or has experience with the following situation.

i have a good female friend and all last year everyone joked that we'd get together etc. then we had a big fight (about each others romanctic situation), now we're both single and talking again. the rumours and jokes are still going round (even her own family thinks we'll get together). we were always close but both of us would be very quick to shut down any talk of a relationship. the past few weeks when its come up she hasnt denied it like usual instead shes started saying like "even if we did i cant see why its got anything to do with them (our friends) as long as we're enjoying it. (it being the sex).

then a week ago we were at a friends party and with a little champagne added, we ended up together on a makeshift bed. she was in my arms head close to mine. i could see from her eyes she was keen. i didnt push it because i freaked out and i didnt want to take advantage of a good friend. if was going to persue this girl id do it honestly.

bottom line is, this scares me not because im scared of losing the friendship but because im scared of how great it could be. shes a great girl and i really dont know what to do? (i had 8 different successful sarges in 9 weeks recently when i first thought i might like her and it didnt work to distract me).

any help?

cheers
rednut18

hmmm
ok so from that i gather your not wanting a relationship right?
right but your friends and not going to do anything right?
right but you dont want to right???


holy crap... hi oneitus where did you come from???

lol... joking... KINDA

k..
you gotta kinda make up your mind here.. if you like this girl.. then hell go for it tiger.. get into that awsome LTR thats just waiting to blossom and have a great life...

IF not.. um... a FwB?... but if your afraid you might get feelings for this chick (lets be honest with each other for a second... youve probably thought about this before right???)

then be direct... talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel...

Just My Thoughts,
Lucky

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150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.

I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.

"Taking advantage" of someone in that situation is an American Hypo-critical bull-shitism. Get over that. Do you consider her a dumb or a moron? I'd gues not. Have some respect for her. She has an idea of what's going on after all. Do what comes naturally. Don't make excuses for being a man or wanting what you want.

Now if you want to keep her strictly as a friend then that's another matter all together. If not, just go and have fun and forget the "guilt".

Cheers.