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| lam000 | PostPosted: Mon Apr 13, 2009 9:14 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Jul 10, 2008 7:31 pm Posts: 14 | | Hey guys, I have an intersting discussion.
How do you have to beheave yourself in a love relationship, are the rules diffrent than in a the "sex" relationship?
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| Medic | PostPosted: Mon Apr 13, 2009 11:31 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Fri Dec 14, 2007 12:04 am Posts: 434 Location: New York | | In a true relationship, you maintain your frame just the same that you would in a typical sex only, however "the game" doesn't really approach this. I've thought about this many, many times and the answer that I've come up with is simple: treat others how you wish to be treated. It's simple but true. You need to be able to compromise with the other person. In a sex only "relationship" it's all about you, in a real relationship, it's not about you, it's about the "us," it's about making it work for the both of you.
I apologize for the poor grammatical structure. _________________ Life is a game. Win.
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| dark one | PostPosted: Tue Apr 14, 2009 7:32 pm | |
Joined: Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:41 am Posts: 1193 | | Any one who tells you that in a relationship things should stay the same as when you are single is an idot and has never had a gf....or has and there is a reason they are single now haha
No you should never let a women walk over you! but if you want to make it last you do need to do nice things for her....just like she should do nice things for you. An example would be small shit like geting her coat when its cold out....but then you should also expect her to do things for you when you ask....its a give and take kind of thing.
One thing that is important is to set ground rules from the start! you can be a push over and then 6 months into the relationship turn into a diffrent person....If there are things that you dont like then let it be known from the start!
Being in a relationship should be 50/50....treat her like gold but dont get walked on, and she should do the same to you.
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